How to Tell if You Can Handle a Long Distance Relationship ...

How to Tell if You Can Handle a Long Distance Relationship ...
By Corina • Sep 5, 2024

Not all long-distance relationships are difficult and quite complicated. It depends on how serious you are for your relationship. Every relationship has its pros and cons but if you work hard enough and if you have patience, then you can make it work. Just keep in mind that this is teamwork and you should find a balance between how much you give and how much you receive in the relationship. You don't want to feel used or taken advantage of if things don't go according to your plans. Here are 7 signs you can handle a long distance relationship that you should consider:

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1. You Are Optimistic

One of the most obvious signs that you and your partner are ready for a long-distance relationship is that you are positive when you think about your relationship. You are optimistic about your future together and you know that if you are willing to make certain compromises, your relationship will flourish no matter how far you are from each other.

2. You Two Trust Each Other

If you and your partner trust each other and you know that you have nothing to worry about when you live in different cities or different parts of the globe, then this may be a clear sign that you two can handle a long-distance relationship. There might still be some insecurities that your partner might find someone else, but try not to let them interfere with your happiness.

3. You Value Communication

If you want your long-distance relationship to be successful, then you and your partner have to be aware of the importance of good communication. It’s very important to be in touch with each other through e-mails, webcam chats, phones or anything else. This will strengthen your bond and it will give you a sense of togetherness.

4. You Plan Surprises for Each Other

If you and your loved one love to plan surprises for each other because you like bringing a smile to each other’s faces as often as you can, you might handle all the challenges that a long-distance relationship can bring. You could send each other e-cards, gifts, love letters or you could dedicate love songs that will illustrate the feelings you have for each other.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. You Take Your Relationship Seriously

If you want your long-distance relationship to work, then you and your partner need to take it seriously. You have to keep your relationship a high priority. For example, if your partner calls, then you should try to answer them, no matter how busy you are. Return their texts as soon as possible. Basically, do everything in your power to show them how important they are to you.

6. You Love to Travel

If you are a big fan of traveling, then a long-distance relationship might be perfect for you since you will often have the chance to just hop on a train, plane or car and go visit your significant other.

7. You Are Not Jealous

If you are not a jealous individual and if you and your partner don’t have any trust issues, then you two can handle a long-distance relationship. Jealousy can ruin any relationship, especially the long-distance ones since as you are not always around your significant other, you don’t know what they are doing or with whom they are.

Long-distance relationships can be beautiful but also challenging sometimes. What qualities should someone have to handle a long-distance relationship? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!

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  • MiddleMe

    2015-07-31T18:02:51.696Z

    Open dialogue, Honesty and Committed are what made my LDR work out successfully, we have since closed the distance and happily married!!
  • Gracey

    2015-07-30T17:13:14.945Z

    Trust and communication :)
  • Evelynn

    2015-07-30T07:38:21.169Z

    One point to add: if you are the kind of person who needs a lot of physical contact (i.e. Hugs and kisses) and you feel bad about your relationship without it, then this is not a good idea. I've had a long distance relationship but felt so off during the whole time because it was leaving me with the feeling that a big part was missing. Physical contact isn't everything, true, but it still is a big part. For me it just didn't work out
  • Kristina

    2015-07-30T20:15:28.969Z

    About to enter a long distance relationship with my high school crush. He noticed me 5 years later! Kind of nervous. He seems serious about this giving the fact he's never been in a long distance relationship before. Fingers crossed! I think he's the one
  • ash

    2015-07-30T07:36:09.819Z

    exactly!!! now gotta wait for my mr.right (ldr or not)
  • Bella

    2015-07-30T06:57:46.486Z

    I am in long distance relation with my partner for 3 years..now is my husband. What i can say you will need to have strong heart and mental too. And depends on what kind of person your partner is..it is not that easy 😌
  • Vivien

    2015-07-30T00:49:33.250Z

    Take it seriously !!! I agreed with this one
  • Meidwita

    2015-07-30T02:13:00.638Z

    Lol the last one, i failed 😂
  • Kim

    2015-07-30T06:58:18.818Z

    Good tips
  • Nana

    2015-07-30T14:24:00.468Z

    My bf and I use the happycoupleapp to spice up our relationship despite the distance :)
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