When you go through a breakup, you may be looking for signs your ex has moved on. You may be wondering if it is possible to work things out. While that can be a possibility, it sometimes doesn’t happen because he has moved on. These are 7 signs your ex has moved on that you can look for to know it is truly over.
1. He Has a New Girl
One of the signs your ex has moved on is if he has a new girl. If he still has feelings for you, he more than likely will not move on. He might possibly date for a small amount of time but it won’t last because you are still in his heart. But if he has a new girl and she is definitely his girl, it is over. It may be time for you to look for someone else, too.
2. He Returned All Your Stuff
Another of the signs your ex has moved on is if he has returned all of your stuff. Over the course of a relationship, you generally end up with some things at your home that belong to him and vice versa. If he has returned all of your things, it can be a sign it is truly over. The good thing about this is that you know where you stand. You don’t have to wonder if things will work out.
3. He’s Stopped Having Contact with You
If there is a chance that you can get back together, there will probably still be some contact between the two of you. It may be a small amount but there is usually contact. A guy will generally keep the lines of communication open if he is thinking of working things out. It may be minimal contact but it will be there. However, if he isn’t answering your calls and texts or making any to you, it is a sign he has moved on.
4. He Won’t Look Your Way
If the two of you end up in the same place and he won’t look your way, it isn’t a good sign. This usually means that it is over. If he will still smile or say hello, then things may work out. The thing is that the ball is not completely in your court. You both have to be willing to get back together.
5. He Has Said These Things
There are certain things your guy may say if it is over and he is moving on. If he has told you he never wants to talk to you again, that is pretty clear. He also may say things like his feelings are gone or that he is anxious to move on. If he is giving you these messages, try to accept them. This allows you to move forward with your own life.
6. He Avoids You
If your ex avoids you in any and all situations, that is a big sign. He may even try to avoid being at the same place you are if he knows you are going to be there. This can be very hurtful. The best thing to do is allow yourself to feel sad and process that so you can move on. There are other guys you can meet that will cherish you for the treasure you are.
7. He’s Getting Married
If your ex is getting married, it is over. This is the biggest sign there is. At this point, you need to let go of any remaining hope you have held onto. Respect his new relationship and wish him well. This is the mature and right thing to do.
These are 7 signs that your ex has moved on. Have you been in a position where you saw these signs? What helped you come to terms with the fact the relationship was truly over?