11 Signs Your Guy Best Friend is into You ...

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11 Signs Your Guy Best Friend is into You ...

Relationships can be tricky but if your relationship is blossoming from a strong friendship, you'll have no problem! If you're wondering whether or not your guy friend is into you, here's a couple of signs to help you decide!

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1

Always Wants to Partner with You

Whether you are in school, at work or even just walking down the street, if he is into you, he wants to constantly partner with you. If he is constantly asking to be your lab partner, looking for ways to become your partner on a project, he is into you. Trust me ladies, this tip is a dead give away!

2

Asks You to Hang out

Do you constantly feel like you are the one that has to ask your guys friends to hang out? Well, if he is into you, he'll be the one to take the first step. Now, I'm not saying that every single guy that asks you to hang out is potentially into you, but if you notice that your guy BFF is constantly asking you to hang out – it's a sign!

3

Teases You

It's that old saying that when a guy likes a girl, he is constantly mean to them. That doesn't mean that your BFF has to be mean to you, but he probably teases you right? What about a little sarcasm? Trust me, if he takes it a little far, he really likes you and wants to see your reaction to his true sense of humor!

UPD:

It is a common belief that when a guy likes a girl, he often teases her. This is not always the case, but it is a sign that he may be interested in you. Teasing can come in the form of sarcasm, jokes, or playful banter. If your guy best friend is constantly teasing you, it could be a sign that he likes you. He may be testing the waters to see how you will react to his jokes or teasing.

Another sign that your guy best friend may be into you is if he goes out of his way to do nice things for you. This could include bringing you coffee or lunch, opening doors for you, or helping you with a project. He may also be more attentive to you than other friends, offering you his undivided attention.

If your guy best friend compliments you more than usual, it could be another sign that he is into you. He may compliment your physical appearance, your intelligence, or your abilities. He may also be more protective of you than of other friends, offering his opinion or advice when asked.

4

He Stares

Do you catch him staring at you constantly? Does he constantly look away when he's caught? That's a sign ladies, that he's totally into you! So play coy, flirt a little – if you like him like that of course!

UPD:

When a man finds himself captivated by you, his gaze often lingers longer than a casual friend's might. It's as if his eyes are drawn to you like a magnet, and even when he tries to play it cool, you can sense that intensity. That spark in his eyes? It's not just pure admiration; it could very well be the beginnings of love. So, if you notice that furtive glance from across the room or that hesitant eye contact, embrace those butterflies and maybe send a smile his way. It's your move now!

5

Sits as Close as Possible

Is there barely an inch of room between you two when you sit down? Does he constantly want to sit next to you as opposed to his guy best friends? It's a sign ladies!

UPD:

When a guy chooses the chair right beside you, even when there are plenty of other options, it's a subtle hint he wants to be close to you. This proximity can be his way of getting your attention and enjoying your company on a different level. Pay attention to his body language too—if he's leaning in your direction, mirroring your movements, or seems tuned in to your every word, these are all classic indicators that he's got more than friendship on his mind.

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6

Asks for Your Help

If you know anything about guys, you probably know that they have a really hard time asking for help. Does you best guy friend constantly ask for your help? Homework, cleaning advice, relationship advice even if he isn't in one? He might want to be in a relationship – with you!

7

He Really Listens

Did he remember your birthday? What about that thing you said you wanted last week? If your guy friend really listens to you, he is into you, without a doubt!

UPD:

Having a guy best friend who truly listens to you is a rare and special thing. It shows that he values your thoughts and opinions, and is genuinely interested in what you have to say. This level of attentiveness is a clear sign that he is into you. He remembers important details about your life and makes an effort to show that he cares. This could be remembering your birthday, your favorite things, or even small things you mentioned in passing. It's a sign that he is paying attention and wants to make you feel special. So if your guy best friend is always there to listen and remember, it's a good indication that he has feelings for you.

8

Makes You Laugh

Guys love to make girls laugh. It's totally one of their favorite things in the world to do and if your BFF makes you laugh all the time, it could be a sign that he's absolutely into you!

UPD:

Laughter is often considered a key component in building a strong and lasting relationship. According to a study by the University of Kansas, shared laughter can increase feelings of closeness and attraction between two people. So if your guy best friend is constantly making you laugh, it could be a sign that he sees you as more than just a friend. Additionally, humor is often used as a way to flirt and show interest in someone. So if your BFF is using humor to connect with you, it could be a subtle way of expressing his romantic feelings.

9

He's Protective of You

If he likes you, he'll want to protect you - whether that means holding your hand through a horror movie, giving you an umbrella when it rains, or defending your honor if any other guy is bothering you. Yup, he'll prove that chivalry is NOT dead!

10

He Notices the Little Things

Not only does he really listen to you, he really notices everything about you, too! He sees when you get a new haircut, new glasses, etc. He even knows all your little quirks. The little things about you is what he loves about you!

UPD:

When you've changed your nail color or are wearing a new outfit, he's the first to compliment you. It's in these subtle changes that his attentiveness shines through. He remembers the exact date of your work promotion and even your favorite ice cream flavor that you casually mentioned once. It's not just the major milestones; he celebrates with you for the minute victories and understands your disappointments, no matter how trivial they may seem to others. This level of detail to who you are as a person is a surefire sign that he cares deeply for you.

11

He Goes out of His Way for You

If he never has a problem with going out of his way for you, it's a sure sign that he likes you. He doesn't mind doing something because he knows it's going to make you happy and that's all he cares about! You can ask him for any favor and, chances are, he'll say yes.

If he is into you, eventually he'll let you know, but it'll be hard for him. If you really like your BFF, just look for these 11 signs he is into you! Have you ladies ever had a guy friend that's been into you? Share your story in the comments!

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I have a friend that ive known for like 3 years but scince we have a lot of classes together we have been getting really close. He is a really big flirt and he talks to a lot of girls. I cant tell if he likes me (i have always been bad at signs) he talks to me a lot and when we are at lunch he will switch seats with someone so he is next to me. The first thing that made me think he like likes me is when we were at a christmas party and we started watching a movie and there were like 10 of us on one couch and i was next to him and i got tired to i put my head on his sholder and he put his head on top of mine and his arm over my sholder. Also, i have a few learning problems and he helps me in school a lot and stands up for me when people say mean things about me. He hugs me when he sees me and we have held hands once, I dont know if its a guy just being a flirt or if he realmy likes me. Another problem is one of my friends likes him too and she says he likes her too but they dont know eachother that well and she has lied a lot to me in the past. Im worried because me, the guy i like, and a few other friends are having a movie night and i feel like there will be drama. Does anyone know if he likes me? and what should i do if he does?? thanks!! xx - ali

Hi there. I've got a slight problem. I have a boyfriend who asked me out in late November. He recently moved to Germany and is coming back over next week. I think I now like my best friend, James, who knows about me and my bf but I think he's jealous. Last year we had genuine crushes on each other but James didn't ask me out so it went no further. Now, whenever possible James is trying to talk about my bf in a teasing way but then tries to sit next to me in lessons and help me revise at lunch and all the things that you said above. James used to be arrogant and when I told him I didn't like it he stopped and is now giving me compliments like he's never done before. I am thinking of breaking up with my bf partly because one of our teachers was talking to James and then when he mentioned my bf she said "so are you saying that you should've asked Helena out last term?" Apparantly he nodded and blushed. Do you think I should take a chance on James and break up or do you think that's not a good idea? I'm confused and I don't know whether I'm reading into it too much. Finally, is it strange that I almost constantly think about him and when I do I smile? Thanks xxx

there is this boy that i like alot and he shows all of that and all of my friends says thay he likes me but when i ask hem if he like me he said yes but as a friend so i dont know what to do plzzz help me

One of my best friends wesley shows all this signs! he texts me all the time and i really like him. and last week he told me that he felt the same way about me, but i have been waiting for him to finally ask me out! but he wont! idk what to do??

hey i am having an issue right now im 16 so i have a guy best friend i see him on like Tuesdays and Thursdays and at church but sometimes on weekends. but ya so he is always takes my stuff and runs with it weather its my jacket or my sweater so i can chase him he also pokes me and comes up behind me and scares me . im really closs to his parents there the pastors of my church and they think of me as a daughter.he also invites me alot to places like snowboarding and stuff. and when i have problems he is there for me and he always says that he is to. he always try his best to make me smile when im sad or make me laugh :)). and i really like him like when im having the most horrible day just texting him could make me feel better. and we text every day and night and morning. but my friend asked if he liked me and he said no.yet he keeps showing me these signs. and i don't know but i really like him what do you think i need your help!!:(

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