9 Obvious ๐ก Signs You're in the Wrong ๐ซ Relationship ๐ ...

Do you ever get the sinking feeling that your partner might just not be right for you? Sure, we all have our doubts every now and then and relationships take work; but, there are certain instances when youโre in the wrong relationship and itโs not just not working out as weโd like it to. If you feel like you might be in the wrong relationship, Farrah GrayYou has some insightful advice on how to tell if your relationship isnโt good for you.
So youโre madly in love with your partner, but your friends, family, and even your pet arenโt so excited about your new love interest. Donโt ignore their concerns! When starting out in a new relationship itโs easy to get caught up in the excitement, but itโs important to take their opinion seriously. Youโve also got to consider the fact that their feelings about him/ her likely wonโt change in the future which could complicate things.
One of the great things about relationships is that your partner can make you want to be a better version of yourself. Maybe he encourages you to spend more time volunteering or she helps you come up with ways to get that promotion at work. However, if your partner is always pointing out your faults and wants you to change, is he/she really in love with the real you? You canโt always be the one changing in order to please your partner.
No one is perfect and if you find that your partner puts you down a lot, constantly compares you to others, or makes mean โjokesโ, itโs time to let him/ her know that itโs not acceptable! Your partner should love you for you, not a โwork in progressโ version of you. Your partner should be accepting, loving, and most of all make you feel good about yourself.
We always hear that relationships are 50/50, and itโs true. One person canโt always be the person making all of the decisions for the two of you. There might be times where one of you is more knowledgeable about something or just wants to take the lead and thatโs fine. But if your partner insists on always making the decisions, it could be a red flag.
Itโs natural to miss your partner and wonder what he or she might be doing, but weโre talking about trust here. Do you wonder what your partner is up to because you donโt trust him/her? If thatโs the case, it could mean trouble down the line. Distrust can lead to arguments, jealousy, and itโs just not healthy.
Does your partner complain that you never spend enough time with her/her? Or, maybe youโre the one who canโt get enough time with your love and he/she likes to spend time with friends. Gray emphasizes that couples have to be mutually comfortable with the time you two spend together. If your partner likes spending Friday nights with friends, itโs most likely not going to change in the future.
Are you into PDA and lots of touching, but your partner prefers less contact? Itโs possible that you or your partner can grow to prefer more or less physical contact, but thereโs a greater chance he/she wonโt change which could lead to cheating down the line. Itโs not a total deal breaker, but itโs something to keep in mind if one person isnโt providing what the other wants.
Do you ever feel like you no longer have a say in how you spend your free time? Are you constantly doing things your partner has planned to make him/her happy? Do you have to ask permission to see your friends or family? If you answered yes, it could mean that your partner has taken control and not in a good way. Healthy relationships arenโt based on one person making all the decisions for the other.
Partners make one another happy out of love, but itโs not anyoneโs job to do so. If your partner is needy and totally depending on you, this is a sure sign of an unhealthy relationship! Not only is it unhealthy for your partner to be so reliant on you as their sole source of happiness, you will be exhausted from constantly trying to keep your partner happy.
What did you think of Farrah Grayโs signs of being in the wrong relationship? If youโve been in the situation before, do you have any advice youโd like to share?