There are loads of signs you've hit the jackpot with your relationship. A perfect relationship doesn't exist, so don't fool yourself into thinking it does. But, that doesn't mean you won't meet a man who'll turn your relationship close to perfection.
Your relationship will have flaws and weird moments when you'll wish you never started dating, but it will also give you a lot of happy moments and memories you won't trade for anything in this world. That is the beauty of a close to perfect relationship.
Sometimes you'll wish you never met him, but sometimes you'll feel like the luckiest girl alive because you met him. And all those beautiful moments erase those bad ones.
In the beginning, it's all about chemistry, but that doesn't last for long and it's not as nearly enough to have a meaningful relationship that will last forever. There are some jackpot characteristics that these almost perfect men have, which are a firm ground to start your relationship on.
Here are the best signs you've hit the jackpot with your relationship.
1. He Will do Anything for You
The only thing he really wants is to see you happy and satisfied and that's one of the biggest signs you've hit the jackpot with your relationship. He will do anything you want, just to see a smile on your face. If that means hopping into a car in the middle of the night just because you have a craving for a burger or pizza, he will do it. Even if he is doing something already, he will drop it just because you need him. Well, that is just pure and uncorrupted love.
2. He Trusts You to the Moon and Back
If you reach a tough moment in your relationship, he will sit you down and talk to you like a mature man would do because he trusts you enough to know that you are a reasonable adult. Every relationship is built on trust. Trust is the fertile ground for a happy relationship and without it, there is no point in starting anything new. Chemistry comes and goes, honeymoon phases pass, but trust stays forever.
3. He Pays Attention to You
If you have something to say, he will hear you out. He will never pretend he’s listening just to get you off his back. Your conversations are always fun and relaxed because you respect each other and you pay attention to each other. You know that both of you are equally important. He will devote himself entirely to listening to you while looking you straight in the eyes.
4. He is Your Safe Harbor in a Raging Storm
Whenever something bothers you and you’re angry, you’ve got him to rely on. He will always be there to comfort you and hug you when you need it, in total silence without saying anything. But, he is also smart enough not to push your buttons and avoid getting you angry.
5. It’s ‘we’, Not ‘I’
The word ‘I’ doesn’t exist in your relationship; he never uses it because he is done with the past when it was all about him. He has met you and from now on, he is sure that you are going to spend the rest of your lives together. He knows that there is no more ‘I’, just ‘we’ and he loves it.
6. He Isn’t Afraid to Commit
He is not ashamed of being in a relationship. On the contrary, he brags about you and being in a relationship with you to everyone he knows. He has no problem with committing because he loves you, knows that the thing you have going is real and that there is no need to search any further. Happiness has knocked on his door and he has welcomed it.
7. He Will Take Care of You
You can be sure that you won’t miss anything when he’s around. He will wait for you to come from work and take you out to dinner. When you’re sick, he’ll make you soup and tea and nourish you back to health. He will take you to bed and gently stroke your hair until you fall asleep, whispering sweet and soft words in your ear.
8. He is Proud of You
He will walk proudly by your side, showing everyone how lucky he is to have you as his girlfriend. He would shout it from the rooftops because he has nothing to be ashamed of. He will introduce you to the most important people in his life, to his family and friends. He will always hug and kiss you in public because that’s just how little he cares what other people think. The most important thing is that he loves you and that’s more than enough for him.
9. He Challenges You
Every day is a challenge for him but in a good way. You always learn something new. He never embarrasses you when you don’t know something, but he teaches you. If you’ve been in a comfort zone for quite some time, he will challenge you and push you out of it. Gradually, he will challenge you to become a better person until you transform into the best version of yourself.
10. He Shows the Vulnerable Side of Himself
He doesn’t believe that crap that men aren’t supposed to show how they really feel. He doesn’t believe he has to keep on a strong face all the time and pretend that nothing can touch him. He is not ashamed to admit that he is sometimes a broken man who needs your help. So, every time he needs it, he asks for it. Every time he feels sad and depressed, he comes to you and opens up to you. That is my ladies, what real men do. They are not afraid to show how they really feel, especially in front of the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with.