--- title: "17 Struggles of Awkward Women Trying to Be Sexy ..." description: "The Embarrassment You Feel; Undressing is Not a Striptease for You – Even if You Hope It is; Talking Dirty?; Lap Dancing is out of the Question; You Have No Sexual Stories to Share; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/struggles-awkward-women-have-when-trying-to-be-sexy/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Struggles of Awkward Women Trying to Be Sexy ... Being sexy is hard. You have to worry about how you look, act and how to not be embarrassed. I know that when I try to be sexy, I am awkward as hell. I'm not alone … right girls? I can't be alone! So, share some of the awkwardness with me below! ## 1. The Embarrassment You Feel ![The Embarrassment You Feel](https://img.allw.mn/content/i1/ih/gp44pfxp56d08a2c14f52940832074_500x232.gif) It's embarrassing to open up and try to be sexy – only to find your partner laughing at you because you are awkward. ## 2. Undressing is Not a Striptease for You – Even if You Hope It is ![Undressing is Not a Striptease for You – Even if You Hope It is](https://img.allw.mn/content/e5/yr/e2itfa5k56d08b0ce9867497762041_499x276.gif) Yep, you've tried to be adventurous but you just look awkward. ## 3. Talking Dirty? ![Talking Dirty?](https://img.allw.mn/content/j1/zk/xvqno04356d08964dc16f147246840_625x260.gif) Um, you have no idea how to talk dirty and you are awkward doing it. ## 4. Lap Dancing is out of the Question ![Lap Dancing is out of the Question](https://img.allw.mn/content/nk/we/vlrydqve56d08b2266145554082984_500x258.gif) You sort of just … grind on them. ## 5. You Have No Sexual Stories to Share ![You Have No Sexual Stories to Share](https://img.allw.mn/content/kb/fs/bkjj2wn156d08b2e52f37807414691_500x281.gif) Just … embarrassment. ## 6. You Feel Totally Awkward when Exploring Yourself ![You Feel Totally Awkward when Exploring Yourself](https://img.allw.mn/content/qp/ms/z7qxzjtq56d08bb0a927a246727193_500x281.gif) Even if it is just you in the bed, couch or shower – you feel awkward touching yourself. ## 7. Sex Toys? ![Sex Toys?](https://img.allw.mn/content/xr/fk/oblz3qkt56d08dfb25061194159314_500x282.gif) That goes in where? ## 8. Porn? so Uncomfortable ![Porn? so Uncomfortable](https://img.allw.mn/content/oy/jl/qsysu6d956d08bc753213729060226_499x227.gif) Or it is just plain funny! ## 9. You Want to Switch Positions? ![You Want to Switch Positions?](https://img.allw.mn/content/cl/x4/huxhro1t56d089e504be8659548003_500x215.gif) Um. I didn't take yoga and I have no idea how to bend that way. ## 10. Sexual Adventures Are More like Sexual Nightmares ![Sexual Adventures Are More like Sexual Nightmares](https://img.allw.mn/content/fd/ec/d5u80uiu56ecea9dc7b04064442904_500x213.gif) Yes, you try to be adventurous but … it's awkward. ## 11. Your 'sex' Face is … Just Wrong ![Your 'sex' Face is … Just Wrong](https://img.allw.mn/content/we/ee/sx6471yv56d08b78d62ab230988919_500x253.gif) And you don't mean for it to be! ## 12. When You do Talk Dirty, How Much is Too Much? ![When You do Talk Dirty, How Much is Too Much?](https://img.allw.mn/content/i2/ga/epdq43j856d08ca5d07f6097749043_500x202.gif) You can't tell. Ever. ## 13. You Always Manage to Bruise Something during Sex ![You Always Manage to Bruise Something during Sex](https://img.allw.mn/content/b6/a0/ktyz314j56d08ce47d196199196916_400x230.gif) Whether you are banging your elbow on the nightstand or you are banging your head on the headboard, something hurts during sex. Always. ## 14. Your Hips Don't Move like That ![Your Hips Don't Move like That](https://img.allw.mn/content/pn/z5/rh1gigwj56d08c15bfb38135853942_500x274.gif) Yeah. You've tried to be Shakira but it doesn't work. ## 15. You Have No Idea How to Initiate Sex ![You Have No Idea How to Initiate Sex](https://img.allw.mn/content/y4/pv/bou0l1vf56d08d6888c8b508894375_500x230.gif) You end up like Cher in Clueless and fall off the bed. It happens! ## 16. Getting Aggressive? ![Getting Aggressive?](https://img.allw.mn/content/o9/hs/ko5ywcz056d08d3a4a324049095476_500x281.gif) It's hard for you to muster up the will to get aggressive with your man … and it's a disaster when you try. ## 17. Just Remember, You ARE Sexy ![Just Remember, You ARE Sexy](https://img.allw.mn/content/cr/ah/j79d80ci56d08e257d519408967311_500x270.gif) You don't have to try, you just are. 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