Do you ever feel that fire of passion burning in your loins but find that you are too shy to just come out with it and let your partner know that you are ready to go? This can be an annoying issue for a demure lady like yourself. You want to be just as sexually adventurous and satisfied as more confident people, but you just don’t have it in you to vocalise your needs in the same ways that they seem to be able to do! Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are a few subtle gestures to show you're in the mood for sex!
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Back Rub
Rubbing someone’s back not only makes them feel good in a comforting sort of way, but it also plants some thoughts in their head about the other things that your hands could be doing! The pace with which you rub can be really telling of the kind of mood you are in; the slower you go, the sexier it will feel!
A gentle, consistent motion across the shoulders and down the spine can send shivers of anticipation down your partner's back. Mix in some soft kneading to release any built-up tension, allowing your fingertips to explore just enough to stir up intrigue. By occasionally letting your hands wander slightly lower, you hint at desires that go beyond a basic massage. Finding that perfect rhythm communicates volumes without a word, as the warmth from your touch subtly suggests an invitation for more intimate encounters.
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Compliments
Get in to compliment giving mode, boosting their ego and filling them with the kind of self assuredness that makes them want to prove just how impressive you are telling them they are! We’re all only human after all, and little ego massaging goes a long, long way!
Offering specific compliments to your partner can create a sense of intimacy and trust. Whether you admire their new haircut, the way they handled a difficult situation, or the passion they put into a hobby - let them feel seen. Highlighting their unique qualities not only validates their efforts but subtly indicates your desire for them. It’s about making the compliment personal and relevant; let them know you notice the little things. Intimacy is, after all, in the details, and a well-placed compliment can be the perfect prelude to a more physical conversation.
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Mirror Them
It’s a weird quirk of humanity, but the more you mirror someone’s actions and speech pattern, then more they want to have sex with you! You can send sexy time signals to someone by making the effort to be a little more like them, replicate their body language and see if they take the hint.
Mirroring goes beyond body language; it can also encompass vocal patterns or shared laughter. Subtly matching their tempo or tone during conversation can create an intimate rapport. Try leaning in slightly when they speak or mimicking a gesture they often use. When it's done with a flirtatious flair and coupled with sustained eye-contact, these nuanced actions can signal your interest without a single word. It's all about the chemistry—the dance of non-verbal cues that can often speak louder than any direct proposition.
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Sit Close
There is the normal kind of sitting distance, and then there is the ‘something more’ kind of sitting distance! Reduce your proximity to them in a subtle but still noticeable way, and the closer your bodies get, the more thoughts of what might be underneath those clothes start to creep in on both sides!
By shifting just a tad closer than usual, you breach that invisible bubble of personal space in the most delicious way. It's a whisper of a move that can shout volumes to your partner. The electric buzz of skin potentially touching skin can send shivers down the spine and speak a silent language of desire. Subtle brushes or "accidental" contact can heat the atmosphere, and before long, that heat might just turn into a blazing fire of passion ready to be unleashed.
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Eye Contact
Your eyes can often say much more than your mouth ever could! If you can establish eye contact with them and make knowing, suggestive glances, you won’t need to say anything at all to make them realise that you want them to take you to the bedroom! Master the art of sexual eye contact and you will never have to speak up about it again!
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Head Tilt
According to body language experts, a cheeky, flirtatious tilt of the head can be very suggestive when you do it in the right way. It’s seen as some sort of emotional appeal, an invitation for your partner to come a little closer and get more intimate with you. Trust me, it’s much more effective than you think!
When you combine the tilt with a soft gaze and perhaps a playful bite of the lip, it conveys a potent, non-verbal signal that you're open and receptive to your partner's advances. This subtle move can be especially alluring because it exposes the vulnerable neck area, hinting at trust and submission. Practice it in front of a mirror to get it just right, and watch your partner's reaction the next time you use it during a quiet, intimate moment together.
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Cup Their Face
This is an emotional appeal wrapped up in a very intimate gesture. It can be an instant turn on when you show someone you care for them beyond your physical attraction to them.
