--- title: "17 Subtle Ways to Initiate a Kiss with Your Crush ..." description: "Look into His Eyes; Lick Your Lips; Tell Him You Want to Kiss; Caress His Face; Lean in; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/subtle-ways-to-initiate-a-kiss-with-your-crush/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-05-20" --- # 17 Subtle Ways to Initiate a Kiss with Your Crush ... If you want to kiss your crush, you need to make the right moves. The next time you're alone with him, there are a few things you can try. Here are a few subtle ways to initiate a kiss with your crush: ## 1. Look into His Eyes ![Look into His Eyes](https://img.allw.mn/content/q9/m8/tumwbrcl56a8d85954712785741609_500x200.gif) Your eyes can tell him everything that your mouth is afraid to say. All you have to do is look him in the eyes, then look down at his lips, and then look up and into his eyes again. ## 2. Lick Your Lips ![Lick Your Lips](https://img.allw.mn/content/l0/gv/pfh78h3w56a8d85a3ca4a124482340_500x270.gif) Drawing attention to your lips is your best bet when you want him to kiss you. That's why you can do something as subtle as licking your lips in order to get his attention. ## 3. Tell Him You Want to Kiss ![Tell Him You Want to Kiss](https://img.allw.mn/content/er/gw/hajoguny56a8d85952336290254939_500x281.gif) There's nothing wrong with being blunt. He'll like your confidence. Plus, if you just tell him you want a kiss, you won't have to wonder if he's confused about how you feel. ## 4. Caress His Face ![Caress His Face](https://img.allw.mn/content/kx/ww/rplt9dos56a8d859729e7884028986_500x281.gif) You don't have to be the one to go in for the kiss. Instead, you can cup his face in your hand. He should get the hint. ## 5. Lean in ![Lean in](https://img.allw.mn/content/ta/y9/qxhac2yl56a8d86335419617230732_500x281.gif) You can't kiss him from far away. That's why you should lean in, as close as you can, to let him know what's on your mind. ## 6. Touch His Thighs ![Touch His Thighs](https://img.allw.mn/content/rk/tq/zgwu2v5356a8d8599c372851401195_500x281.gif) You don't have to grope him. Just let your fingers rest on his thighs. It should make him think inappropriate thoughts. ## 7. Touch His Lips with Your Fingertips ![Touch His Lips with Your Fingertips](https://img.allw.mn/content/zw/lq/pal718cr56a8d85b7b18d770350162_500x220.gif) This can be awkward, which is why you have to wait until the moment is right. But if the move is pulled off properly, you'll create an intimate moment between the two of you. ## 8. Apply Chapstick or Lipstick ![Apply Chapstick or Lipstick](https://img.allw.mn/content/iv/is/xri9sfjv56a8d85b4e402756490974_400x226.gif) This is another way to draw attention to your lips. If he sees you touching them, then he'll wonder what it would be like to touch them himself. ## 9. Compliment Him ![Compliment Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/q4/l3/anihewgp56a8d85a8a70c636184109_500x280.gif) Some boys are clueless. In order to let him know how you feel, you might have to give him a compliment about how sexy he is to make it clear that you're attracted to him. ## 10. Make a Dirty Joke ![Make a Dirty Joke](https://img.allw.mn/content/pb/xu/i2pdf4c756a8d85b34c1e248018225_500x269.gif) If you joke about sex, then he'll think about sex. That could lead to a kiss! ## 11. Have Open Body Language ![Have Open Body Language](https://img.allw.mn/content/kq/y7/hfn18tpv56a8d85b40ed5946183508_500x234.gif) You don't want to keep your arms crossed and your eyes on the ground. If you do, then he'll assume you don't want to be bothered and won't even try to touch you. ## 12. Bite Your Lip ![Bite Your Lip](https://img.allw.mn/content/xb/t3/cw8y1q6d56a8d85badbf5344586818_470x245.gif) Instead of touching your lips or applying lipstick, you can bite down on your lip. It can be a sign of sexual frustration, so he should know exactly what's on your mind. ## 13. Linger after a Hug ![Linger after a Hug](https://img.allw.mn/content/gf/ty/vh0405ei56a8d85c11015036154694_500x228.gif) If you're lucky enough to hug him, don't pull away completely once you're finished. Keep your face close to his so he knows what to do. ## 14. Make Flirty Comments ![Make Flirty Comments](https://img.allw.mn/content/kv/yx/k6jtyf2z56a8d85c2720f671207440_500x282.gif) Flirting will encourage him to kiss you. So be as playful as humanly possible! ## 15. Sit Shoulder to Shoulder ![Sit Shoulder to Shoulder](https://img.allw.mn/content/ad/un/lwgf08oj56a8d85dad76c110411250_500x232.gif) If you two are watching Netflix together, make sure you sit side-by-side on the couch. The closer you are, the easier it'll be to initiate a kiss. ## 16. Smile ![Smile](https://img.allw.mn/content/dd/jc/wpzrbntm56a8d85c86386335099137_500x222.gif) When the conversation dies down and you're looking him in the eyes, make sure to smile at him. It'll let him know that you're happy to be with him. ## 17. Do It Yourself ![Do It Yourself](https://img.allw.mn/content/y0/d4/lqry4h9v56a8d85d2c74c420459084_384x216.gif) If you wait for him to make a move, you could be waiting forever. If nothing else works, then you can just lean right in and kiss him yourself! Now you'll be able to hint at what's been on your mind! 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