Itโs important to be able to accept when itโs time to let go and move on. This can be a difficult realization when you still want to get back together so badly. But how do you really know itโs time to let go? Theseโre 7 signs that youโre never getting back together.
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Communication Has Become Practically Nonexistent ๐
After you broke up, you still talked some. Youโd shoot him a message; heโd ask how you were doing every few days. But things have changed and you seldom, if ever hear from him. While this can be hard to deal with, itโs a sign that heโs moving on and you need to do the same.
He Blocked You on Social Media ๐ป
Some signs are really clear, like this one. If heโs blocked you on social media then thatโs a very obvious sign he doesnโt want you in his life. Yes, it can be hurtful but itโs also a way to know for sure that itโs over. When you know for sure that itโs over, you can let go and take steps toward moving on yourself.
Heโs Really Happy with His New Girlfriend ๐
This can feel really hurtful when youโre still carrying a torch for him. You want to get back together but itโs obvious he doesnโt. Thisโs where you get the chance to be mature and wish him the best. You may not understand his choice in girlfriends and feel you could offer him so much more but you have to respect who heโs chosen.
He Wants His Stuff Back ๐ฌ
Wanting his stuff back means heโs done. When this happens, all you can do is get things together and return them. Your heart may feel like itโs breaking but youโre strong. You can tie up the loose ends of the relationship with dignity.
Heโs Moving Away ๐
This could have something to do with you or it may have nothing to do with you at all. It could be heโs moving for work or he randomly chose a college to go to thatโs far away. Take this as fate telling you to let go. Wish him the best for his future and make sure you do all you can to make your future bright, too. Itโs hard to let go of hopes that youโre getting back together but believing that thereโs a better future out there for you helps.
His New Girlfriend is Wearing a Ring on Her Left Hand ๐
This can be feel like a gut punch when you spot it for the first time. You may have been thinking that this new relationship heโs in is going nowhere and means nothing to him and then you spot his girlfriend wearing a ring on a very specific finger. At this point you have to back away. Respect the commitment theyโve made to one another and wish them well. Itโs okay if youโre sad but trust that brighter days will come for you.
He Changed His Phone Number ๐ฑ
You canโt get a much bigger clue than this one. If heโs been giving you hints that he doesnโt want to talk to you and then suddenly his number is different, take the hint. Itโs not going to work itself out. Give him the space he wants. And really, do you want to be with someone who doesnโt want you? Of course you donโt; move on and find someone whoโs truly right for you.
Theseโre 7 signs youโre never going to get back together. Are you in this position of wanting to get back together? Youโre welcome to share here.
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