7 Terrifying Things That Arent Scary when You Find the Right Person ...

By Holly

Love is a terrifying thing, which is why some people try to remain single for as long as they can. They're afraid of committing themselves to someone and ending up with a broken heart. Even though that's always a possibility, love can also be an amazing thing that can transform the way you see the world. Here are a few terrifying things that aren't scary when you find the right person:

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1. Vowing to Spend Forever Together

Weddings are viewed as a beautiful event, but they're actually pretty terrifying when you think about it. You're vowing to spend the rest of your life with one person, which means that you can never kiss anyone else or even flirt with them. However, when you find the right person, being bound to them is more of a blessing than a curse. It's an exciting thing that you'll be eager to do, because you'll know that you couldn't dream up a better man.

2. Aging until You're Old

After a certain point, no one wants their birthday to come around. They want to remain as young as they can, because the thought of growing old terrifies them. However, when you find the right person, you'll always be happy to spend another year with them. You won't worry about getting old, because you've already found what you've been looking for.

3. Moving and Merging

If you're used to living alone, you might cringe at the thought of sharing a bathroom with someone and never having a secluded place of your own. However, when you find the right person, you won't want to be away from them. Instead of being annoyed by their presence, you'll be annoyed by their absence.

4. Noises in the Night

When you find the right person, you won't worry about every little noise you hear at midnight. Even if a burglar enters the house, you'll be positive that your partner will take care of it. You'll trust him more than anyone else, so you'll feel protected whenever you're together.

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5. The Bliss of Childbirth

Raising tiny humans of your very own is hard work. You're going to lose sleep, get poop and pee everywhere, and have your ears sting from the crying. However, when you find the right person, you'll be eager to embark on the journey together. It won't be a scary thought, because you'll know that he'll always be right by your side to help you out.

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6. Fighting through Financial Issues

The day when your parents stop paying for things is a scary one, even though it'll make you feel independent. Although you and your partner might have money troubles, you won't be as terrified about your financial situation when you're with him, because you know that your relationship is more important than cash.

7. A Boringly "Bland" Life

Most people aim to make their life extraordinary. They don't want to settle for having a nine to five job and a couple of kids. However, there's nothing wrong with that. Once you find the right person, you'll realize that you can be at your happiest with that typical "bland" life you wanted to avoid. You might not need to travel the world or become famous, because all you need will be right at home.

Falling in love can be terrifying, but it's also beautiful. The wrong person will break your heart, but the right person will cherish it for the rest of their days. Have you found the person you want to spend forever with?

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34 years and counting!

I wish I could meet my mr.right this year :)

Yes, i found him, but now I am stuck at home with kids, and he is traveling the world for his job :(

I have found the right person I want to spend the rest of my life with but he is married and separated. I am married also. We have the same problem in our marriage and is not happy. Something is bringing us together. Is it faith ? Or destiny.

So true. Someday someone will walk into your life that makes you realise why it never worked out with anyone else. I have met my someone and couldn't be happier.

Love this and yes I have met that one for me

nice sentiment even if this is painfully heterosexual

Me and my boyfreind have discussed all these things and we aren't scared at all

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