It doesn't matter how experienced you are when it comes to sex, because everybody makes mistakes. The good news is that those errors can easily be fixed, as long as you know what you're doing wrong. With that in mind, here are a few of the biggest mistakes you can make during sex:
1 No Foreplay
There's a reason why most women don't end up having an orgasm during sex. It's because most couples don't engage in nearly enough foreplay. A man can get hard in two seconds, but it can take a woman an hour in order to get wet enough to have sex. That's why you should foreplay for as long as you need! If you don't foreplay at all, then sex is going to feel painful instead of pleasant.
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2 Faking an Orgasm
There's no good reason to fake an orgasm. You shouldn't do it in order to make your man feel better about himself or to end sex faster. After all, if you make him think that you've had an orgasm, then he'll always use the same dull moves he's been using, because he'll assume that you love them. Instead, only wiggle and moan when you genuinely like what he's doing to you.
3 Not Using a Condom
Even if you're on birth control, you should be using a condom. After all, the pill doesn't protect you from STDs. That's why it doesn't matter if your boyfriend claims that he hates the feel of condoms. If he won't have safe sex with you, then he shouldn't get to have sex with you at all. Be smart and stay safe!
4 Being Too Drunk
A little bit of alcohol can help you let loose. However, if you go overboard with your drinking, then you're going to have trouble in the bedroom. The more you drink, the harder it will be for you to get your genitals ready for sex. Even if you're ready to go, you might act sloppy, which can be a total turn-off for your partner. You don't want to lose him over one drunken night.
5 Getting Impatient
You can't get frustrated with your body if it's taking you a long time to orgasm. In order for you to finish, you have to be completely relaxed. If you're freaking out, then you're only lowering your chances of having an orgasm. You need to take deep breaths and just enjoy the moment instead of worrying about how long it's taking you to finish. Most women take a while. It's nothing out of the ordinary.
6 Keeping the Lights off and Trying to Cover up
Your boyfriend wants to see your naked body. He'll be more turned on if you leave the lights on during sex. Of course, you shouldn't do it for him. You should do it for you. The more comfortable you become with your body, the more confident you'll be. There's nothing for you to be ashamed about.
7 Having It when You Don’t Want It
The only reason you should have sex is because you actually want to have sex. Don't let a boy guilt you into sleeping with him. You don't owe him anything.
8 Not Initiating Sex
There's always that one person in the relationship that initiates it more than the other-don't be that person. Your man wants to feel wanted just as much as you, and if he's always making the first move he'll eventually give up due to lack of effort. Let him know he turns you on by taking the first step once in awhile.
9 Expecting Him to Always Want It
Just like us women don't like men expecting us to have sex with them, don't expect your man to always be ready and willing. He's tired sometimes too, or has things on his mind distracting him from feeling the act. Don't assume he isn't interested anymore, just try to talk to him instead and let him know you're there for more than that.
10 Not Saying What You Want
If you're not enjoying it, tell him! If you want him to do something else, tell him! Sex is not the time to be shy so use your big girl voice and let him know what really gets you going so the experience is great for both of you.
If you stop making these mistakes, your sex life will be a million times better! What other mistakes do you think too many women make during sex?
