4. Going in V Staying out

I'm beyond embarrassed when I look back and think of one guy I 'dated'. It was so clear that all he wanted was a fling, but I fooled myself into thinking it was a relationship. If all you ever do as a couple is stay in … it's not a relationship. A fling is sexual, a relationship involves going out and doing other things.

One of You Has Recently Split up with Your Ex

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chiquitilla
It's happened to me. Texting he was very romantic and was always all talk, but when it came to doing things all he wanted to do is stay indoors, and he would always choose his friends over me. I thoug...
Ashleypaige311
My best friend for two years used me just so he could touch me... He dumped me after that and I feel so abused... I haven't been able to think the same about men after this and it's all because of him...
Megan
I agree with "SnowLion."& I have sympathy for Steph5-what a jerk he is!
Shannon Bauer
I did my life back I can use can I try it and I love that I can going through my life is going to be not good in life o have been going myself and happened to me a lot my problem of ex with a boy and ...
NC
Sadly , I don't think it's about " being hurt " by the guy when you realize you didn't mean anything , but how stupid and embarrassed you feel after wards
Snowlion
I used to think feeling anxious was just "butterflies", and men who made me feel nauseous were "exciting". Now I know those gut feelings are my intuition, which is never wrong. It's normal to feel a l...
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