Hey, Virgo stalkers, this one’s for you! You know how amazing you are, right? You’re independent, you’re thoughtful, and you definitely know how to compartmentalize your feelings. Did you ever stop to think about how your star sign affects your love life, though? Because it absolutely does. Take a look at the mistakes Virgo women most often make in their relationships and see if you agree!
1 You Can Be Really Fussy Sometimes
This is just something you want to watch out for when you’re with somebody. It’s your nature and that’s cool, but remember that you have to compromise in your relationships.
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2 Sometimes, You Are Really Inflexible
You have to be willing to give a little when there are two people involved. You like doing things your own way, but your partner probably does, too.
3 You Are SUPER Independent, Which Can Be Hard on the Relationship
Being independent is awesome and it will definitely serve you well, but you should feel like you can rely on your partner sometimes.
4 You Can Be Skeptical of Your Partner Sometimes
You’re just kind of naturally skeptical on occasion, but unless you know you have something to be suspicious about, you need to try to open yourself up to trust.
5 You Interfere a Lot
You just like to help and fix problems, right? Remember, though, not everyone will want your interference, at least not all the time.
6 You Are an Intense Person Sometimes
You just need to channel that intensity in the right direction, otherwise, it’s kind of intimidating.
7 You Can Come off as Cold
Of course, you’re not. You just keep your feelings close to the vest. That’s usually okay, but when you’re in a relationship, you have to reveal your feelings a little.
8 You Can Be Really, Really Picky Sometimes
It’s okay to be picky about some things, but don’t miss out on something great because of it.
9 You Get Offended Easily Sometimes
It happens, you know? With your partner, though, you can’t be too sensitive. If you are, you need to have a conversation about the things that offend you.
10 You Need to Be Stimulated a Lot
You can’t stand being bored, especially in your relationship. That’s totally understandable, but you have to do your part to keep things interesting, too.
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A relationship requires two people actively participating in the creation of fun and engaging experiences. It's key that you share the responsibility with your partner; plan dates, surprise each other, and don't shy away from trying new activities together. Remember, communication is critical—express your need for stimulation and listen to your partner’s ideas, too. It is essential to find the right balance between comfort and excitement in your relationship to keep the flame alive.
11 You Are Predictable Most of the Time
Nothing wrong with that, but since you don’t like to be bored and you do like being stimulated, try not to let yourself get into a rut.
12 You’re Super Conservative
It might be a good idea to open your mind and your heart a little, especially in your relationship.
13 You Require a Lot of Patience from Your Partner
As long as you offer the same amount of patience, you’ll be in good shape.
14 You Overthink Everything
Being prepared is awesome. Overthinking everything, though … that’s not so awesome all the time.
15 There Can Be a Lot of Breakdowns in Communication Because of Your Overthinking
You just can’t look too far into things because you’re thinking too much. It’ll just lead to a lot of unnecessary fights.
16 When You Are Upset, You Don’t Show It …
That’s why you come off as cold sometimes, but remember, this kind of behavior can lead to a lot of arguments, too.
17 … then You Get Resentful
See?
How about it, Virgos? Any of this behavior seem familiar?
