When it comes to sparking a love connection with somebody, it might be fair to say that a lot of the initial emotion and feeling of the situation is completely instinctual. Things like physical attraction and lust come in to play more than other factors, and this is totally fine for a quick fling, but when you start to think about taking things to the next stage, it is time to take things a little more seriously. There are definitely certain factors that you need to consider before making the commitment to enter into a longer lasting partnership, is it worth it if you don’t think that it’s going to last? Here are the ten most critical questions to ask yourself for a lasting relationship.
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Are We a Good Fit?
You might fancy the pants off of each other on a physical level, but are you a good fit emotionally? Are you both on the same level in terms of maturity? That is what is needed for a long-term success.
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Do We Have a Strong Friendship?
Underneath the romance, you need to be friends as well. It isn’t always going to be burning passion 24/7, you need to make sure that you actually enjoy the non-sexual company of this person as well.
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Do We Want the Same Things?
Are your future family and life goals in alignment? If they are not, then you could just be wasting precious time in your prime.
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Do We Have Realistic Expectations?
Are you planning on making big life changes bot for yourself and for him? Do they sound realistic? If not, then it might not be meant to be.
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Do We Bring out the Best in Each Other?
You don’t want to commit years of your life to someone who doesn’t bring out the best in you or even turns you into someone that you don’t recognise or like.
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Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
Do We Both do the Hard Work?
Relationships take a lot of hard work, so you need to make sure that you are both doing an equal amount to maintain the partnership.
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Can We Talk about Anything?
There shouldn’t be any taboo or avoided areas in a long-term relationship, if there is something that you don’t want to discuss with them or something you want to hide, it will only fester and become a problem.
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Are You Ready to Commit?
Deep down are you ready to give up your bachelor lifestyle and commit to being one half of a couple?
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Can You Handle the Stress?
Relationships can be very stressful at times; do you think you are ready to cope with the stress at this time in your life?
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Do You Have a Support System?
You need to make sure that you have a good group of friends or family who will be there to help you out if you start to experience problems.
