The Thoughts You Have when You Fall in Love the First Time ...

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The Thoughts You Have when You Fall in Love the First Time  ...

You will always remember your first love. We’re talking love that is in a relationship – no matter for how long. Crushes and unrequited love have their own sets of feelings. Nothing will ever be quite like the thoughts you have when you fall in love for the first time.

1 Am I Happy? Am I Actually Happy for the First Time? This is a Weird Sensation and I Don’t Know How to Process It!

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2 But Wait, What if He Doesn’t Feel the Same Way That I do? That Sure Makes Me Vulnerable. This is Making Me Unsure about the Relationship!

3 Can I See Myself Spending the Rest of Myself with This Guy? Can I Envision a Future Where He is Still the Person Who is around to Make Me Feel Better at the End of the Day?

4 Hold on, Does That Mean That I Will Never Have the Opportunity to Kiss Another Man Again? There Are so Many Hunks That I Haven’t Locked Lips with Yet!

5 He’s Had so Much More Experience than I Have, Does That Mean That We Are Unequal Partners? Will My Lesser Experience Matter in the Long Run?

6 He Wouldn’t Give Me His Netflix Password That Time, Does That Mean That He is Hiding Other Things behind Passwords on His Phone and Computer!?

7 Why do I Get so Jealous when He Talks to or Texts Other Women, Even Though I Know That They Are Only Friends and Colleagues? Am I Going Crazy!?

8 How Long Was My Longest Relationship? Should I Make It My Primary Goal to Make Sure This One Goes Longer than That before Taking the Next Big Step?

9 Wait, do I Feel Stuck? Am I Stuck? is This Relationship Making Me Feel Stuck or is This Just What Settling down Feels like?

10 We Argue Sometimes, do We Argue Too Much? How Much do Other Long Term Couples Argue? I Don’t Know What’s Normal and What’s Not!

11 His Family Kind of Intimidates Me, Especially His Sister! I Get That She Wants the Best for Him, but is It Always Going to Be This Passive Aggressive?

12 He’s a Little Bit Older than Me and It Never Felt like a Problem, but Now Things Are Getting Serious, Does the Age Different Mean More?

13 God, I Love His Smell, He’s Got a Great Smell. I Love to Bury My Face in His Spare Sweatshirts. Does That Make Sound like a Crazy Animal?

14 But Wait? Am I Really Attracted to Him? Am I Really, Truly Attracted to Him or Am I Just Excited about the Prospect of Being with Someone?

15 Is It Weird That I Find Myself Wanting to Be with Him Every Second of Every Single Day? I Feel like I’m Addicted to Him!

16 Am I Getting Too Emotionally Attached? Should I Instead Be Bracing Myself for What Could Be a Heavy Fall if It All Goes Wrong?

17 I Can’t Stop Thinking, Not Just about Him but about Everything That Surrounds Him and the Relationship That We Are Building. I’m Obsessed with the Positive and the Negative

18 I Love the Fact That He Makes Me Feel Safe and Small in Him Arms, It’s like Finding the Piece of the Puzzle That Fits Perfectly

19 Will There Be a Lightning Moment when I Know for Sure That I Love Him? or is It Just Something That Creeps in Silently and I Have to Realize It over Time?

I fell in love for the first time when I was 18. Our relationship lasted nearly 4 years. I occasionally wonder where he is now. What was your experience of first love?

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