Men and women aren't all that different, you know. We tend to be attracted to the same types of qualities. Don't believe it? Here are a few things that men are turned on by as much as we are:
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1. Exercising
It's sexy to see someone trying to keep themselves fit. If he catches you on the treadmill, then he's going to find you attractive, even if there's sweat dripping down your body.
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When you're in your element, lost in the rhythm of each step and breath, it's an unintentional showcase of determination and strength. Sweat glistens as a badge of effort, and the pure focus in your eyes tells a story of someone who understands self-care and dedication. This sense of purpose and vitality is irresistible because it speaks to a level of personal commitment that goes beyond appearance—reflecting a beautiful blend of physical and inner well-being.
2. Eye Contact
When you look someone cute in the eyes, it's impossible to push the butterflies away. That's why men enjoy eye contact just as much as we do.
3. Exposed Skin
Men love to see our shoulders, legs, and cleavage. There's just something sexy about exposed skin.
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Indeed, there's a fine line between class and sass when it comes to skin exposure. A hint of collarbone, a playful ankle reveal, or the subtle curve of a back can ignite the imagination while remaining tastefully seductive. Remember, it's not just about showing more, it's about highlighting your favorite features with confidence. Whether it's through a chic off-the-shoulder top or a high-slit skirt, it's the artful tease of what's beneath that often creates an irresistible allure.
4. Intelligence
There's no reason to play dumb in order to impress your crush. He probably values intelligence just as much as you do. That's why you shouldn't be afraid to show him how smart you are.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. A Good Sense of Humor
Every woman wants a man who can make her laugh. Guess what? Men want the same thing!
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6. Beautiful Hair
Not all men prefer long hair, but they all love the looks of soft hair. That's why you should never forget to wash and shampoo!
7. A Passionate Kiss
You don't have to take off your clothes in order to drive a man crazy. A good kiss can turn him on more than you could ever imagine.
8. Thigh Touches
Men love having their thighs touched as much as we do. Even though we don't have the same type of genitals, they're in the same location, which is close by the thigh.
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The sensual appeal of the thigh is not to be underestimated. Whether it's a gentle caress or a firm grip during intimate moments, touching the thigh can send shivers up a man's spine. It's a zone that, when paid attention to, can really crank up the heat. A light stroke or a teasing touch along the inner thigh is especially potent, as the skin in this area is particularly sensitive. This sort of contact can serve as electric foreplay, heightening anticipation for both parties involved.
9. A Delicious Scent
Your eyes aren't the only thing that can turn you on. Your nose can, too. That's why you should always wear your best perfume on the days you're going to see your crush.
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Scents are powerful, acting like a personal signature that can leave a lasting impression. When you choose a perfume, select one that complements your natural scent—it should be alluring without being overpowering. A subtle fragrance that lingers after you've left the room can ignite memories and provoke desire. Just as you might dress to impress, consider your scent another essential accessory that speaks to your individuality and has the potential to draw him closer. Remember, the right aroma can be just as seductive as the perfect outfit.
10. Abs
We love seeing men with defined abs, so it shouldn't be surprising that they love to see them on us, too.
11. A Smile
It's sexy to see someone smiling. It means that they're happy, and what's more attractive than that?
12. Confidence
You should consider yourself hot stuff. Why? Because men are drawn to confident women, just like we're drawn to confident men.
13. An Accent
Everybody loves British accents. They're irresistible, no matter what your gender is.
14. Your Laugh
Don't you love it when you make your crush laugh? Well, he loves making you laugh just as much.
15. Dirty Talk
Instead of using your body to turn him on, you can use your words. If you say something sexy to him, then he's going to be thinking about it all day long.
16. Delicious Food
You've heard that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. That's because boys love to eat as much as we do.
17. Tattoos
Who doesn't love the look of tattoos? A little bit of ink can be a major turn on.
Your crush is probably impressed by the same type of things that impress you! That's why it shouldn't be all that hard to turn him on. Which one of these things turns you on the most when a man does it?
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Morag: Don't agree about the Tattoos they are awful.
Courtney: I loved this topic. I love to make eye contact and I love it when he makes me laugh. =)
Tymkathrynlee: This is a topic that is just general opinion for what the unicorns and fairies made up. Humans want someone that is happy with themself, forget the tattoos and abs and all this junk(aside from intelligence, smile, eye contact) all the others are Bologna. Come on ladies, be YOU!
alainnamc: my man loves my tattoos!
NatKat: Lol no on tattoos being a turn on...
Emma: I don't find tattoos attractive in a man, even though I love some of my friends' tattoos. I think it makes men seem vain, which is a very unattractive trait, in my opinion. Mind you I'm the same about men who are a bit too ripped. Obviously fitness is attractive, but it's not really a priority. Anyway, any of these things are wrong if it's not you.
Dez: This was a good one😊
Claire: I got a few tattoos my self but I like men with a few tattoos but not to many !
Wildwolfgirl: I love creative and meaningful tattoos but they aren't really a "turn-on"
MysseC: I, personally, find ALL those things attractive. Without exception! :) I like it when people are themself.
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