17 Things That Should Automatically Be Deal Breakers ...

By Holly

17 Things That Should Automatically Be Deal Breakers ...

There are certain things no woman deserves to put up with. Even if you think a man is right for you in almost every way, you need to leave him if he crosses the line, because one deal breaker should signal the end of the relationship. If you're not sure what's considered unacceptable, here are a few things that should automatically be deal breakers:

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1

He Cheats

He Cheats If a man sleeps with someone else or kisses someone else, it's grounds for a breakup. You should be the only woman in his life.

2

He Insults You

He Insults You Don't let a man talk down to you. If he acts like you're inferior, you should show him the door.

3

He Physically Abuses You

He Physically Abuses You The second a man slaps you, delete him from your life. Even if he promises to never do it again, you can't believe him. Your best option is to leave.

4

He Lies

He Lies If he lies to you about small things, he'll lie to you about big things. You need an honest man if you want your relationship to work.

5

He Won’t Tell You How He Feels

He Won’t Tell You How He Feels Some men aren't good at expressing their feelings. However, if you're dating him, he has to be honest with you. If he never lets you know how he feels, how will your relationship ever last?

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6

He Won’t Go down on You

He Won’t Go down on You Sex is an important part of a relationship. If he'll sleep with you, but isn't willing to do what he needs to do to get you off, he's inconsiderate.

7

He Won’t do Any Chores

He Won’t do Any Chores You're not in charge of all of the cooking and cleaning, just because you're a woman. He should be willing to do some work, as well.

8

He Refuses to Work

He Refuses to Work If he's unemployed, and he won't even bother to look for a job, it's a red flag. How will you two afford a place to live if he won't pitch in?

9

He Body Shames You

He Body Shames You You should never put up with a man who insults your appearance. He should love your body, mind, and soul.

10

He Gets Overly Jealous

He Gets Overly Jealous It's normal for him to get jealous when you talk to your ex. But if he gets mad at you whenever you look at another man, something's wrong.

11

He Never Listens

He Never Listens Why would you want to date someone who doesn't care about anything you have to say? A good boyfriend would always listen to your little stories.

12

He Tries to Control You

He Tries to Control You He can't tell you what clothes to wear or what food to eat. If he tries to control every aspect of your life, he's dangerous. You need to find someone new.

13

He Tells Mean Jokes

He Tells Mean Jokes If he tells sexist jokes or makes fun of you in front of his friends, you shouldn't put up with his behavior. You deserve respect.

14

He Keeps Secrets

He Keeps Secrets Even if he keeps a small secret from you, like that he loves to listen to Taylor Swift, it's a bad sign. He should be comfortable enough with you to tell you the truth about everything.

15

He Threatens You

He Threatens You It doesn't matter if he's actually hit you before. If he threatens to do so, you should get out of there ASAP.

16

He Does Hard Drugs

He Does Hard Drugs Unless he's working hard to recover, you don't want to date a drug addict. If he has no intention of changing, he might bring you down with him.

17

He Doesn't Want the Same Future as You

He Doesn't Want the Same Future as You If you want to have children, but he doesn't, then you either need to compromise with him or leave him. Otherwise, one of you will end up bitter.

You should never stick with a man who is clearly wrong for you. Have you ever broken up with a man for any of these reasons?

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If he has been to jail or done hardcore drugs, those are major no's for me

Number 6 and 14 are stupid reasons to break up with someone you care about.

6 kinda is but i mean... if that's something you like then going without it would suck lol... 12 is a good reason though

What about if he doesn't trust or believe you? I can't even talk to my guy friends without him getting mad and no matter what I say, he acts like he doesn't believe me. What should I do?

How about takes wayy to many selfies?

Well they should know each others intrest b4 they go that for like BJ

But if they don't pleasure you in the bedroom how you like, the relationship is going to suck (no pun intended) with no orgasms.

@Sweet_Cheeks Being abusive is not a deal breaker to you?… Yikes. You're going to be unhappy in your relationships if you don't know when to leave. Abuse is never okay.

What about if he says to not eat meat on Sunday for religious reasons if I want to be a part of his family? He doesn't control what I eat but just when . Which is not eating meat on Sunday's . So going vegetarian on Sunday's. How controlling is that to be considered??

Wait... Leave a guy if he doesn't go down on you??? Some people just arn't into that. Should a guy dump a girl if she doesn't give BJ's or like anal???

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