Trust me on this, going on vacation with your partner is difficult. Lyndsie and I went on our first vacation to Toronto and while we both loved it, we fought a hell of a lot. Our second vacation? Our honeymoon and it was to Paris, we fought just a little bit. As you get used to each other and going on vacation together, it gets better but here is what to expect during your first vacation together as a couple!
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1. You'll Definitely Have a Huge Fight at the Airport
It'll probably be over something stupid too, like not taking your laptop out of your bag. Yep, that was ours!
2. You'll for Sure Not Sit Together at Some Point in Your Trip
Either you'll accidentally not sit together or the plane tickets end up that way.
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3. Your Partner Will Forget Everything You Told Them to Pack
This'll happen, especially if you don't double-check what your partner packed for you!
4. You'll Fight over the Directions
Whether it is directions to the next place you are going or to the airport, you'll have a fight about it!
5. You'll Take so, so Many Selfies
You'll do it mostly to remember all these special moments together, but probably also because you can't agree on which pictures look the best.
6. … and Videos, It'll Happen
Videos are pretty awesome, though, since you can just let your camera do the work while you take in everything around you.
7. You'll Probably Have a Ton of Sex, Too
Vacation sex is some of the best sex, am I right?
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Vacations are a time to relax, let loose, and enjoy each other's company. As a couple, you'll likely have a ton of sex during your first vacation together. This is because vacations provide a break from the stress and responsibilities of everyday life, allowing you to fully focus on each other. Plus, the change of scenery and new experiences can add excitement and passion to your intimate moments. Studies have shown that couples who go on vacations together have higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships, and vacation sex is a big part of that. So don't be surprised if your first vacation as a couple is filled with steamy and unforgettable moments in the bedroom.
8. You'll Get Sunburned Together
Even if you remember the sunscreen – sometimes you're just having too much fun to be responsible.
9. You'll Fight over Where to Go for Dinner at Least Once
Just remember, you can always compromise and go to the other place the next night.
10. You'll Push Your Limits Together
This is honestly one of the best reasons to go on vacation with your partner.
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Going on vacation with your partner is a great way to strengthen your relationship and create unforgettable memories together. It allows you to step out of your comfort zone and try new things together, pushing each other to try new activities and experiences. This can range from trying exotic foods to participating in adventurous activities like hiking or bungee jumping. By pushing your limits together, you'll not only have a great time but also build trust and communication within your relationship. Plus, it's a great opportunity to see each other in a new light and appreciate each other's strengths and bravery. So don't be afraid to try new things and push your limits while on vacation with your partner.
11. The Connection Will Become Deeper No Matter What
When you're in a strange place, exploring, taking in everything, and making memories together, your connection naturally grows deeper.
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Going on a vacation as a couple allows you to experience new things together, which can strengthen your bond. Studies have shown that couples who travel together report feeling more satisfied in their relationships. This is because traveling requires communication, problem-solving, and compromise, all of which are important skills for a successful relationship. Additionally, being in a new environment can bring out different sides of each person, allowing you to learn more about each other. Exploring a new place together can also create shared memories and inside jokes that can bring you closer. Overall, a vacation as a couple can deepen your connection and bring you even closer together.
12. You'll Probably Drink Too Much at Least Once Night
It's best if you take turns, but that doesn't always happen.
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It's no secret that vacations can be a time for indulgence, and for couples, that often means drinking more than usual. According to a survey by American Express, 70% of couples admit to drinking more alcohol on vacation than they would at home. This can lead to some interesting and sometimes regrettable experiences, but it's all part of the adventure. Just make sure to take turns being the designated driver or plan ahead for safe transportation options. And don't worry too much about it - a little bit of excess can actually bring couples closer together and create lasting memories.
13. One of You Will Get Sick
And the one who gets sick will probably get the other person sick, but it might not happen until after your vacation, which isn't quite as horrible.
14. You'll Both Sleep Late Because You Are Hungover
Time zones make a difference, too, but whatever, you're on vacation!
15. You'll Make out One Entire Day
And what a day it will be!
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One of the most exciting things about going on your first vacation as a couple is the opportunity to spend an entire day together without any distractions or responsibilities. This means you can fully immerse yourselves in each other's company and create unforgettable memories. Whether it's lounging on the beach, exploring a new city, or trying out new activities, this day will be filled with endless possibilities and quality time. It's a chance to truly bond and strengthen your relationship as you navigate through new experiences together. So make the most of it and cherish every moment!
16. You'll Get a Little Bored
This is a great chance to deepen your connection, too, because you'll have to figure out ways to entertain each other.
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Going on your first vacation as a couple is an exciting and memorable experience, but it can also come with its own set of challenges. One of the things that will most likely happen is that you'll get a little bored at some point. This is completely normal and can actually be a good opportunity to deepen your connection with your partner. You'll have to get creative and find ways to entertain each other, which can lead to fun and unexpected moments. It's also a chance to learn more about each other's interests and preferences, making your bond even stronger. So don't be discouraged if you feel a little bored during your first vacation as a couple, it's all part of the journey.
17. When You Get Home, You'll Feel the Closeness and Memories
In fact, you'll probably start planning your next vacation the second you get back!
Anybody have any epic vacation stories to share? Give 'em up in the comments!
Comments
ACBM: Where is the meme from #15 from? So cute!
Gina: Is this written for super young couples? Some of these things suggest immaturity. Fighting over where to go to dinner or being too hung over?? High school and college crap.
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