7. Is It Really What You Want?

This is the most important question that you can ask yourself. If you don't have much of an interest in sex, then there's no reason for you to do it. You might be asexual, you might be too young, or you might be waiting to find the right person.

There's no reason to lose your virginity if you don't have your heart set on doing so.

Losing your virginity isn't the end of the world. However, you could end up regretting it if you do it with the wrong person, or do it before you're truly ready. That's why you should ask yourself these questions to see what the right decision is. Which one of these questions is the hardest to answer?


The hardest question will be "will you regret it tomorrow" because practically one doesnt usually know the answer to this until that time actually comes therefore making this a perfect question because if duly considered will put alot of things into perspective for a girl in this kind of situation....
I agree with you @cici, @Annabelle and @Isabella Rossignuolo I can't imagine having sex with anyone else and until I get married because it's a sacred thing for me.
Isabella Coles
Some people have dispositions where they do it for leisure; they just are out there and enjoy it with whoever! Others though treat it as something really special and have the emotional part attached t...
Ritchie V
Taylor go back to school after your comment Rutykitty, I agree. People dont understand that Sexuality isnt just physical, but thats fine, seek pkeasure for today and dont worry about tomorrow. I doubt many understand or care..
Why do kids 13-17 have sex I don't get it
Good read :)
Asiya khaleqyar
Great article! Really want to hear more :)
Lavi X
Great article.. Agreed with @island girl :)
Dollie Sama
@Rutykitty How old are you? 11? Seriously, step up your grammar.
Island Girl
I really like how this article mentioned about regretting afterwards. #5 is not something we hear as often as we should. Good article!
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