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11 Things to do if He is Constantly Texting Other Girls ...

By Heather

Learning that he is texting other girls is always hard to deal with! If your boyfriend is one of those boys that is constantly texting other girls, I've got just the tips and tricks for you! I've got the top 8 things to do if he is texting other girls. After all, why would you want him texting someone else besides you? So girls, you ready to see what to do if he is texting other girls?

1 Confront Him

The very first rule when it comes to the fact that he is texting other girls is to confront him! It might be difficult to do it right up front, but girls, once you get it all out in the open and ask him straight out if he is texting other girls, you'll feel better. Trust me on this!

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2 Be Completely Honest

After you confront him, if you aren't comfortable with the fact that he is texting other girls, you've got to just tell him! Honesty is the best policy here chicas! After all, you want to make sure that the lines of communication between you and your boyfriend are completely open!

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3 Be Clear about Your Expectations

When you are dealing with a guy, you've got to be really clear girls! You've got to express exactly what your expectations are, that way he knows he has to do and what you expect out of him. That goes for him too, he should give you his expectations too when it comes to texting.

4 Tell Him to Stop

If after you confront him, if he is texting other girls still, it might be a good idea to put your foot down and just tell him to stop. After all, he is your boyfriend right? You can make a compromise, you won't text other boys, if he won't text any girls. Deal guys?

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5 Do You Trust Him?

One question that you are going to have to ask yourself if he is texting other girls is, do you trust him completely? Do you think that he is the one? Do you believe that you can trust him even if he is texting other girls?

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6 Have a Talk with Him

If you do trust him, it might be time for you to just have a deep, heart to heart talk with him. Just let him know exactly how you feel and let him know that you don't want him texting other girls, after all, why should he be? He has you.

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7 Open Communication

Always ladies, whenever you are in a relationship, especially a relationship where he is texting other girls you want to make sure that you have very open lines of communication. You both should feel comfortable enough to talk to one another about what's bothering you.

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8 Ask to See the Texts

Finally, if nothing works, ask to see the texts that he is texting other girls. It might be worth it and set your mind at ease to know at least what they are talking about. If he doesn't let you, it could be a sign ladies!

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9 Do You Know Who It is He's Texting?

If you know who it is that he's texting, how about asking her personally to try and respect boundaries. Sometimes, people cross a line without even realizing it! So, be nice about it and just let her know that you don't feel too comfortable about the whole situation. If she's a decent person, she'll respect that!

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10 Tell Him It Isn't Considerate

If he knows how much this bothering you, and he still continues to text other girls, he's clearly not considerate of your feelings. Let him know he's not acting like a good boyfriend should. If that doesn't give him a wake up call, you need to question if this relationship is even worth it.

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11 Give Him an Ultimatum

I know, this sounds a bit extreme but desperate times call for desperate measures, right? If you REALLY feel like you have no choice, let him know that now it's up to him. He can decide who he'd rather talk to you: you or them. If we're being honest, it should never get to this point because if it does, you might have to reconsider this whole relationship thing.

There you have it! My top 11 ways to deal with it if he is texting other girls! So ladies, what are some of the other things you can do if he is texting other girls?

This article was written in collaboration with editor Vanessa Salles.

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