11 Things to do if He is Constantly Texting Other Girls ...

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11 Things to do if He is Constantly Texting Other Girls ...

Learning that he is texting other girls is always hard to deal with! If your boyfriend is one of those boys that is constantly texting other girls, I've got just the tips and tricks for you! I've got the top 8 things to do if he is texting other girls. After all, why would you want him texting someone else besides you? So girls, you ready to see what to do if he is texting other girls?

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Confront Him

The very first rule when it comes to the fact that he is texting other girls is to confront him! It might be difficult to do it right up front, but girls, once you get it all out in the open and ask him straight out if he is texting other girls, you'll feel better. Trust me on this!


Be Completely Honest

After you confront him, if you aren't comfortable with the fact that he is texting other girls, you've got to just tell him! Honesty is the best policy here chicas! After all, you want to make sure that the lines of communication between you and your boyfriend are completely open!


Be Clear about Your Expectations

When you are dealing with a guy, you've got to be really clear girls! You've got to express exactly what your expectations are, that way he knows he has to do and what you expect out of him. That goes for him too, he should give you his expectations too when it comes to texting.


Tell Him to Stop

If after you confront him, if he is texting other girls still, it might be a good idea to put your foot down and just tell him to stop. After all, he is your boyfriend right? You can make a compromise, you won't text other boys, if he won't text any girls. Deal guys?


Do You Trust Him?

One question that you are going to have to ask yourself if he is texting other girls is, do you trust him completely? Do you think that he is the one? Do you believe that you can trust him even if he is texting other girls?

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Have a Talk with Him

If you do trust him, it might be time for you to just have a deep, heart to heart talk with him. Just let him know exactly how you feel and let him know that you don't want him texting other girls, after all, why should he be? He has you.


Open Communication

Always ladies, whenever you are in a relationship, especially a relationship where he is texting other girls you want to make sure that you have very open lines of communication. You both should feel comfortable enough to talk to one another about what's bothering you.


Ask to See the Texts

Finally, if nothing works, ask to see the texts that he is texting other girls. It might be worth it and set your mind at ease to know at least what they are talking about. If he doesn't let you, it could be a sign ladies!


Do You Know Who It is He's Texting?

If you know who it is that he's texting, how about asking her personally to try and respect boundaries. Sometimes, people cross a line without even realizing it! So, be nice about it and just let her know that you don't feel too comfortable about the whole situation. If she's a decent person, she'll respect that!


Tell Him It Isn't Considerate

If he knows how much this bothering you, and he still continues to text other girls, he's clearly not considerate of your feelings. Let him know he's not acting like a good boyfriend should. If that doesn't give him a wake up call, you need to question if this relationship is even worth it.


Give Him an Ultimatum

I know, this sounds a bit extreme but desperate times call for desperate measures, right? If you REALLY feel like you have no choice, let him know that now it's up to him. He can decide who he'd rather talk to you: you or them. If we're being honest, it should never get to this point because if it does, you might have to reconsider this whole relationship thing.

There you have it! My top 11 ways to deal with it if he is texting other girls! So ladies, what are some of the other things you can do if he is texting other girls?

This article was written in collaboration with editor Vanessa Salles.

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#4 When I first asked him to stop he was mad. Then he said he will. Then it started again. I confronted him. Mind you I already looked at the phone records so I knew he couldn’t lie. When was the last time you talk to her. He said a couple weeks ago. I said bullshit you talk to her yesterday. When was the last time you talk to her before that he said months I said bullshit you have over 200 text messages between you and her in one day.

#8 I asked to see the text messages. Conveniently they’re always deleted ALWAYS!

#9 no and idc

these are all really great ways to drive a huge wedge between you and your 'boyfriend'! If you think he's texting other girls and you're too insecure to trust him and accept him then you better move on.

i just discovered today that my husband constantly texts his officemate. he even gave her a unicorn onesie as a part of a deal they had. i saw all the phone records, call and texts through our phonebill.What's funny is when you check his phone you wont see the girl's name there. its killing me that hes doing this. and most likely he will say its just very platonic. but there are texts that are timed at wee hours in the morning.i dont know what to do.help

He tells me that I should not have to worry. He says that if he thinks of her as a friend and only a friend then I should not have anything to say about it. But it hurts to know he is ok with me being bothered over another girl. He says that even if the girl tried something with him he would turn her down but remain as her friend but how can you be friends with someone who likes you in a different way. Why do I have to keep my feelings to myself? He and I argue about this so much and he always thinks that he is in the right and that I should just shut up and be the quiet girlfriend. He says that I am controlling and crazy because I don't want him texting other girls and he says he has the right to have friends. But the only problem is he says he has the right to go out with a girl with it just being them two and only them. How AM I WRONG FOR BEING HURT THAT MY BOYFRIEND WANTS TO BE ABLE TO GO OUT AND TALK AND TEXT WITH OTHER GIRLS???HOW?? HOW??😢😢😢😭😭

Dump. Him. Immediately. Full stop.

#2 is texting someone the same thing as talking to that same person on their phone

He only texts one girl. But it’s a lot.

when u told him to stop he slaped me an im scaerd that he will do it agine