There are some things to keep in mind for cuffing season.
Fall is here, which is my favorite time of the year! However, it’s also cuffing season. This is the time when some people look for a partner to get them through the winter, but they plan to ditch when it warms up again.
Cuffing season isn't necessarily a bad thing, however it’s also a time when all of the fboys/fgirls call their representatives home to play. If you don't know what a representative is, in this regard it is a persons' full potential on display. It’s like they morph into this person who appears to be everything you want. They study what you like and what you don't like so they use that to get your attention, if they want you.
This causes many dangers and frustration for those of us who want long term loyal relationships because people who do this don't want a commitment. They are seasonal boyfriends or girlfriends. The moment when spring rolls around, they start acting up and you are stuck not understanding where you went wrong. Don’t fret. This is normal because shape shifters always have to revert back to their original form. So, you need to know these things to keep in mind for cuffing season.
Be careful if you want something long term, because if this person couldn't rep you in the summer, then they don't deserve to cuddle in the winter. Plain and simple.
It’s important to keep some things in mind so that you don’t fall into the death trap that these narcissistic players plant.
1. Map out the Intention and Ask Where They See the Relationship Going
If they say to get to know you and grow, walk away. If you are wanting something long term, this answer is code for waste your time and then never speak to you again. Why? The answer is so broad and undefined that you'll be confused. Anyone who wants a relationship with you seriously will say something along the lines of I want to be in a relationship with you. I'd like to date you, take you out, get to know you, and you get to know me. Once we’ve established that we like each other well enough then we can take it to next level, but as of right now my focus is on getting there with you. They'll be very clear with their intentions. His intentions are one of the most important things to keep in mind for cuffing season.