Of course, you’re not letting the world go by while waiting for the love of your life to appear. This is a proactive life plan. Just like you will consider the best course for your career choice, you will have given thought to the kind of man you want to attract. Take the time to define your own needs and desires while waiting for the love of your life.
1. Get Your Career in Gear
Focus on yourself and your career goals and don’t actively consider yourself waiting for the love of your life. Consider this your time to shine at work and make yourself indispensable. It’s a great advantage to have your career established when you find love. If both of you are on this same path, it will make financial concerns one less worry in your relationship.
2. Discover Your Passion
Without a man in your life, you’re free to learn about yourself without the distraction of pleasing another. Hobbies or interests that you’ve enjoyed for a number of years might blossom into full-fledged passions when you have the time to dedicate yourself to them. If you don’t already have one, find something you can be passionate about. It’s a worthy goal.
3. Knowledge is Power
When you put off further education today, it’s too easy to put it off forever. While you’re not involved with a relationship where you need to be available and agreeable, take the time to go to school and earn a degree that will be beneficial to your life going forward. This is true whether you fly solo or you’re in a committed relationship.
4. Form Everlasting Friendships
Sometimes boyfriends can get in the way of girlfriends. While you’re not in love, consider this a great chance to be there for your friends in every way possible. One might need a sympathetic shoulder, one might just want to party. You’re free to do as you please and create a bond with your friends that will never break, even when you’ve met the man of your dreams.
5. Be Aware of Opportunities
Unencumbered with a relationship, you are free to go on an adventure! If you’ve always wanted to travel and you have the means, take this time to do so. If a job on a cruise ship or employment in another state presents itself, you have only yourself to consider before accepting or declining. You’ll never have this chance again.
6. Know Yourself
The love of your life might be right around the corner, so you need to recognize him when he appears. If you have had poor judgment in the past when it comes to picking men, be aware of it and break the cycle. You now want someone that will respect as well as love you, just as you respect and love yourself.
7. Be the Best You Can Be
While waiting for Mr. Right, take this time to become the very best person you can be. This could mean giving up bad habits such as smoking, an unhealthy diet, dressing in a too provocative or even a frumpy style, and being consistently late. These are all unattractive traits that you can conquer, so by the time your Mr. Wonderful shows his face, you will be the shining example of the best you can be.
If you’re not in a relationship that has the potential to become the most meaningful of your life, are you taking steps to get your house in order? This means making sure that every aspect of your life is on the right path, so when the magical moment happens, you can embrace it without regret. Where are you in this journey?