--- title: "10 Things You Absolutely Should Not Be Self Conscious about during Sex ..." description: "How Long It Takes You to Orgasm; How Long It Takes Him to Orgasm; How Much Hair You Have on Your Body; How Big Your Breasts Are; If Your Tummy Has Rolls; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/things-you-shouldnt-be-self-conscious-about-during-sex/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 10 Things You Absolutely Should Not Be Self Conscious about during Sex ... You're a beautiful woman, which is why you shouldn't feel self-conscious in the bedroom. After all, sex is a time when you should be enjoying yourself, not stressing yourself out. In order to get the most out of your bedroom experience, here are a few things that you shouldn't feel self-conscious about during sex: ## 1. How Long It Takes You to Orgasm ![How Long It Takes You to Orgasm](https://img.allw.mn/content/ry/c5/bulcvtm8570033cf93e13401472184_500x263.gif) It takes longer for women to orgasm than it takes men, so don't feel bad if the minutes are flying by. Your boyfriend should understand. Besides, if you're focused on the clock, then you're going to stress yourself out. That means you'll never finish, because the only way you'll orgasm is if you're completely relaxed. ## 2. How Long It Takes Him to Orgasm ![How Long It Takes Him to Orgasm](https://img.allw.mn/content/jv/q3/l3m1t98s570033b7af82b943589761_500x252.gif) Even though you've been led to believe that all men orgasm quickly, it isn't exactly the truth. Each man is different. That's why you shouldn't feel bad if it's taking him a while to finish. It doesn't mean that you're unattractive or that you're unskilled. It just means that his body needs a little more stimulation than other men do. ## 3. How Much Hair You Have on Your Body ![How Much Hair You Have on Your Body](https://img.allw.mn/content/hg/n1/twihrni55700341b1ca2c259727186_500x263.gif) Every woman has hair. Your man knows that. If you miss a spot shaving, don't feel self-conscious about it. In fact, you don't even have to shave at all! It takes a lot of time to cover the skin on your legs, under your arms, and around your bikini area. If you don't want to shave a spot, then you don't have to. There's no rule that says you have to be hairless. ## 4. How Big Your Breasts Are ![How Big Your Breasts Are](https://img.allw.mn/content/jy/x4/mrp6g45j5700342a55b8c793644299_500x281.gif) Your boyfriend is going to be thrilled to have a naked woman on his lap. He won't care if your breasts are double Ds or if you're flat chested. The only thing he'll care about is touching them, so don't be embarrassed over your body. He loves every inch of it. ## 5. If Your Tummy Has Rolls ![If Your Tummy Has Rolls](https://img.allw.mn/content/c4/tu/mqie3kxq5700343f0d4aa972973596_500x247.gif) A good guy won't care about how much you weigh. Besides, even if you're tiny, it'll look like you have rolls in your stomach when you sit in certain positions. That's just the way that our bodies work. So don't feel the need to turn off the lights, so that your boyfriend can't get a good look at your body. He wants to see you. ## 6. What You Smell or Taste like down There ![What You Smell or Taste like down There](https://img.allw.mn/content/g2/ka/koauy7p05700345ba706a002880003_470x257.gif) Your vagina is perfectly normal. You shouldn't worry about what it looks like or smells like, because no two vaginas are the same. As long as your gynecologist tells you that everything is running smoothly down there, then there's nothing more you can do. Just enjoy the feel of your boyfriend's body instead of worrying about what he's touching and tasting when he's in between your legs. ## 7. If Your Hair Gets Messed up ![If Your Hair Gets Messed up](https://img.allw.mn/content/c1/m3/play37bx5700347c1d542575295498_500x279.gif) You should expect to ruin your hairstyle during sex. You're not a doll. It's impossible to keep every hair in place. Your makeup will probably get messed up, too, but that's nothing to worry about. If everything stayed in place, then the sex must not have been all that great. ## 8. Your Fantasies/kinks ![human action, person, woman, mouth, muscle,](https://img.allw.mn/content/py/bj/uoqw5vcl58cbe0b2eae90515350726_500x209.gif) Many times, we're too shy to tell our partners what we really want to try or experience in bed. But why should we be? You're hot-blooded and young, experience any and everything because you're a sexual and fantastic being. ## 9. Toys ![human action, black, black and white, person, human positions,](https://img.allw.mn/content/u7/yx/zzd77q7358cbe1d0565bb796409009_500x281.gif) Toys are fun - there is no denying that. And so often, women are made to feel bad about the fact that they masturbate whereas it's seen as 'no big deal' for men. The stigma needs to go away and you should go to town with whatever toy you choose, with or without your partner! ## 10. Being Vocal ![black, black and white, photography, monochrome photography, muscle,](https://img.allw.mn/content/s2/h7/s4lvy5an58cbe2054d82e137856852_500x281.gif) Sometimes, we feel cringe-worthy to dirty talk. But trust me, he's not going to be laughing at you - he'll absolutely love it. Give it a go! You're beautiful, inside and out, so you have nothing to worry about in the bedroom. 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