--- title: "17 Things You Say That Your Man Hates Hearing ..." description: "You’re Jealous; You Think You’re Ugly; You’re Fine; You Don’t Want to Talk about It; You’re Sad; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/things-your-boyfriend-hates-to-hear/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 17 Things You Say That Your Man Hates Hearing ... Men hate to hear certain things. However, that doesn't mean we're going to stop saying them. Sometimes, we have to do what we have to do. But here are a few things that your boyfriend hates to hear: ## 1. You’re Jealous ![You’re Jealous](https://img.allw.mn/content/k7/yk/y79tqwtg573c7c09e301f614710702_402x213.gif) Boys don't like it when you get jealous over their close female friends. They want to have their cake and eat it, too. ## 2. You Think You’re Ugly ![You Think You’re Ugly](https://img.allw.mn/content/u4/xf/iekhblng573c7c0add406196377462_500x244.gif) Your boyfriend thinks you're beautiful. He doesn't want to hear you bashing your looks, because he doesn't understand how you think you're anything less than perfect. ## 3. You’re Fine ![You’re Fine](https://img.allw.mn/content/ly/i1/hguesy88573c7c0a5b6af378313081_500x282.gif) Boys don't like the word "fine," because they assume it means you're pissed off at them. They don't want to figure out what they did wrong, so they'd rather have you tell them bluntly. ## 4. You Don’t Want to Talk about It ![You Don’t Want to Talk about It](https://img.allw.mn/content/qr/yd/nlgg3t6f573c7c0f2c6cf826044010_500x281.gif) If you're upset, your boyfriend wants to know why. He doesn't want you to shut him out. ## 5. You’re Sad ![person, man, male, facial hair, portrait,](https://img.allw.mn/content/so/hg/unn4z87q58f4752f59f8f038591276_576x320.gif) Your boyfriend wants you to be happy. If someone makes you sad, then he's not going to like it. ## 6. You’re on Your Period ![You’re on Your Period](https://img.allw.mn/content/an/ol/d4n2671c573c7c0b17598487236368_416x208.gif) This means you won't be able to sleep with him for a few days without making a mess of the bed. That's bad news for his penis. ## 7. Your Ex Texted You ![Your Ex Texted You](https://img.allw.mn/content/tn/cj/ue9z4bm7573c7c0b4e804265243790_500x233.gif) Your boyfriend might hide his jealousy, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. He hates when your exes text you, because he's worried about losing you. ## 8. You’re Not in the Mood Tonight ![You’re Not in the Mood Tonight](https://img.allw.mn/content/e4/j9/lzdo8phd573c7c0bb9f18882423732_500x332.gif) If he's horny, he won't be happy to hear that you're tired or cranky or have a headache. He wants to get his way. ## 9. He Should Relax ![He Should Relax](https://img.allw.mn/content/ok/mi/wocejm1g573c7c0be6cc5295316309_550x309.gif) When he's ranting and raving about something, the last thing he wants to hear is that he should calm down. He doesn't want to be told to cool it. ## 10. You Don’t Care What He’s Talking about ![You Don’t Care What He’s Talking about](https://img.allw.mn/content/b3/mu/g59xcnpa573c7c0c2fa4a711495115_500x322.gif) He knows you don't care about some of his hobbies, but he wishes you would at least listen to him when he talks about them. He wants you to care about the things that are important to him. ## 11. You Want Him to do His Chores ![You Want Him to do His Chores](https://img.allw.mn/content/z5/l3/tpsks1sz573c7c0f16716056416798_652x270.gif) He doesn't want to be told to wash the dishes for the tenth time. Of course, if you want them to get done, you're going to have to keep nagging anyway. ## 12. You Need to Talk to Him ![You Need to Talk to Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/ey/nl/ls728ndb573c7c0cdedee944222828_500x280.gif) He knows that this is code for "we need to break up." He doesn't want to lose you, so he's going to hate hearing these words leave your pretty lips. ## 13. You Think a Celeb is Hot ![hair, person, facial hair, beard, singer,](https://img.allw.mn/content/ca/v5/mx0kh4m558f4752e7565a877150290_245x187.gif) He knows you're attracted to men like Zac Efron, but he doesn't want to hear about it. He wants to pretend that he's the only guy you want to be with. ## 14. You Made Plans for Him ![You Made Plans for Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/t4/v2/fx7puaff573c7c0d03500645279579_500x215.gif) Men want to feel included. If you made plans for him without asking him first, he isn't going to be thrilled. ## 15. His Stomach is Soft ![His Stomach is Soft](https://img.allw.mn/content/bi/ot/fothj2ly573c7c0d2156e785921990_500x250.gif) You might think telling your boyfriend he's comfy is a compliment, but he just thinks you're calling him heavy. ## 16. You Threw His Stuff out ![You Threw His Stuff out](https://img.allw.mn/content/ai/i5/utzt081t573c7c0e0a501777337220_500x201.gif) He won't be happy if you throw out his old jeans or even his leftovers without asking him first. ## 17. You Think He's Bad in Bed ![You Think He's Bad in Bed](https://img.allw.mn/content/v2/zj/ery6u9n5573c7c0df1101388104274_500x281.gif) Men want to believe that they're amazing in bed. If you tell him the truth, and let him know he has some work to do, it's going to hurt his ego. Men hate to hear these things. Of course, that doesn't mean you should stop saying all of them. You should be honest with him, after all. 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