You need to examine your actions and your boyfriend's actions to figure out if you're in an unhealthy relationship. Try this test: Next time you fight, take a look at how you're both behaving. According to Your Tango, these things prove that your relationship is toxic:
1 One of You Would Rather Move to Siberia than Actually Say, “I’m Sorry.”
If you won't apologize to each other, how are you going to move on after a fight?
2 You’re More about Voicing Your Frustrations with Each Other and Your General Status Quo than Talking about What Either of You Does Right
If you insult each other more than you compliment each other, then why are you even together?
3 One Person Completely Ices the Other out after a Fight
You can't give him the cold shoulder after an argument and expect the problem to go away.
4 You’re Never Exactly Sure Whether They’ll Stick to Their Promises or if It’s All Lip Service
If you think every word out of his mouth is a lie, you don't trust him enough to spend the rest of your life with him.
5 A Minor Difference of Opinion Often Turns into a Sprawling Argument
Do you argue whenever he insults a show you like? You shouldn't be fighting over super small things like that.
6 You Two Are the Human Embodiment of Velcro and Can’t Stand Being Apart
It's unhealthy to spend too much time together. You need your space.
7 You Find Yourself Hiding Seemingly Innocuous Things from Them, like That You Were Talking to a Friend They’re Not a Huge Fan of
If you're hiding anything from your partner, no matter how small, it's a bad sign.
Do you think your relationship is unhealthy?