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I don't mean to be condescending and yes the damages that porno causes you are important but also think of women out there who wish they didn't have to make a living by being sex slaves. Thanks

@rad-dizzle @ayra judgmental much? Me and my boyfriend have never been in relationships before and we were in our early 20s when we met. We both watched porn occasionally before the relationship started (less than once a month). So I know he watched porn. But since we got close, both of us stopped watching. And he treats me and my family with respect, is there for me whenever I need him, never talks down to me, and is a very caring and loving person. Don't tell me about my standards. Only because my definition of cheating differs from your definition of cheating, you'll trash talk me? There are more than 7 billion people in this world; not every single person is going to have the same opinion. Learn to accept other views and opinions too. Live and let live girls!

Well said Ayra!

Please please please DO NOT SUPPORT THE PORNO INDUSTRY!!! Not because of "how you feel or blah blah blah" look it up. There are porno stars revealing against this industry for all the mistreating that goes on behind the scenes, and um yes there is research that shows the link between women slavery and the porno industry; especially in ASIA. Find less damaging ways to spice up your love life with your man.

@Samantha *you're

Dang, watch pprn WITH your guys, ladies. Then make THEM measure up. No big deal.

#5 is soooo WRONG...if he needs porn he doesn't need a relationship.

Oh please do me a favour and educate yourselves a little! Porn is all about feeding a sexual drive and lust I'm pretty sure your man after watching doesn't have meaningful sex with you but more to satisfy this sexual high. It sexualises your mind to the point it is perverted images that can only cause a sexual release not your partner. It promotes destructive practices and exposes you to a range of sexual perversion rape sadist etc you cannot avoid this! It's all about serving yourself ! Whether it be via masturbation or just watchin it to stimulate yourself and release with your partner it's never about taking the others sexual needs into consideration. Watching and viewing porn hour promoting the industry and aiding in exploitation. There are plenty of studies to show from watching porn men just do not find their spouses to able to arouse them or satisfy them because of excessive watching. Ok so screw him but the wife/partner often feels inadequate. These are just a few damaging affects of porn amongst others. So no I'm not judgmental, i actually pity the women who allow this and worse the men who do this.

All guys watch it.. And so many articles call it normal.. And maybe it is.. Maybe not.. But I DO feel a pinch when I find my guy watched porn.. N then I feel the pressure to 'feel normal'.. Initially in our relationship we would argue about it.. But he was and is always clear that ALL guys do it.. N frankly he is standing his ground problem is I am unable to make my peace or opinion about it.. So .. Yeah hurts but guess not as much now..

LoL I know all guys watch it ..... Lol it would be one thing if they could pick up on some new tricks but lol they still expect us to do all of the work