Thanks for the advice lol

This really helped it still hurts alot and i see him everyday in all of my classes mabey you could write something about that well anyway thanks alot you really helped

Some really great advice here. :)

I was invovled with an older guy 9 years older than me Im 19 he's 28 He was so charming and nice he was a best friend too me we were always together inseperatable i was always their for him when he had his hard times when he had no job when the winter was hard and he had n heaters in the house i kept him warm and lifted his spirits when he was down i always encouraged him i cleaned his house and ironed his clothes i was at his house more than my own my friends start fading from me my family start fading from me cause i spent so much time with him , I listened when he cryed about his life and hardships and not having his kids i even wanted too take his kids in as my own. But i got showed no love i got disrespected i got physically abused choked slapped punched hit repeatly in my head. And after 8 months of back in forth and after all we been thru together after all the time we spent he had the nerves too tell me we were never together i was never his woman and he went on talking about gaining new women i was by his side when he was struggling too graduate school i was right by his side encouraging him the whole way and i even filled out the application for him for Nissan i did his Resume' and everything He has a second interveiw coming up next month all because of me and i get no appreciation no love nothing and honestly what hurts me the most was that i wasted my time and im confused on the inside i feel like apart of me is gone because we were around each other so much. He was the only person i talked too on the phone , hung out with , he was the only person i was ever around and he doesnt want a relationship he made that clear but i dont want him with another woman i dont want him too talk about another woman and i feel stuck i know he's not worth my time but i feel like i lost my best friend

Me and my boyfriend had an argument and he told me that he has been cheating on me and that he doesn't need me anymore because we already had sex, he said this after he dumped me. But I still love him and miss him, what do I do ?

I was in a 6 year relationship. And the first 4 years were amazing, and I'd fallen in love with him day by day. And the last 2 years were torture. We just weren't the same anymore. We both realized that we didn't have much in common, and that he's been wanting to break up with me for a while. It's hard, to let go, especially since I've never given up on him. And it's even harder once you've fallen hard, because its just more difficult for you to get back on your feet. It took me months to get over him. I did what this article mentioned. I cried, tried to make plans, tried to be positive. But my mind always drifted to thoughts of him. I just didn't lose a boyfriend. I lost a friend, a best friend, a classmate, a coworker, a lover. So here's my tip for all of you heart broken ladies! Don't give up! I promise you that there is someone out there for you, who'll treat you right. And heck, it'll take months, maybe even years, till he finds you. So in the meantime, date, and hang out with friends. Focus on work, or school. Don't ever, ever, think that your life is over. Because when I think back to my dark days, I tried to kill myself. And boy, was that stupid! Ending my life for someone who didn't care about me anymore. I was lucky to have a friend help me get through this. And if you've got nobody, that's a lie. Your family is there, coworkers, and even classmates! So I hope you guys get over your ex, and find someone or even something that brings you greater happiness! ;)

Tough divorce w/ kids. Being strong is hard but even harder w/ kids and I'm pregnant. But it was for the best (emotionally abusive)and I know it will get better as time passes.

My ex left me after 4 years and an 8 month engagement and found a new gf within weeks. it hurts but I found a man. And we are talking and hope things progress with him :) My ex stalks my twitter somehow and knows about him and now texts and asks to hang out , I really don't get men 0_o