I'm trying to help one of my girlfriends through a break up, never been through one myself.. Going to start by helping her clean her apartment cause it's tiny and a horrible mess, but I really want to change her mindset because she seems to obsess about all the bad things in her relationship. Any suggestions?

this list is impossible for me to implement for my own situation I'll break it down step by step as the list goes on for #1 he's my first and only ex, heck he was my first kiss (crazy right for a 24 year old to have never kissed anyone, but that's me), I don't feel like I need to forgive myself in my situation, because I didn't lose myself, I've had 24 years to get to know myself, the only reason he and I broke up is because he decided he's not ready for a relationship, with anyone. #2 Don't have any regrets, it was a short but pretty much perfect relationship. we both still love each other very much. #3 yea, there weren't bad times, maybe minor annoyances, but that happens in every relationship, dating or otherwise, I don't want to fabricate problems when there weren't any. He really tried his best to not make the same choices he did in the past that caused his past relationships to fail. #4 I never lost touch with my old friends, and we both had an understanding that if we wanted time to hang out with our friends, without the other there (even if it's friends of the opposite gender to our own) we wouldn't stand in the way. #5 not happening, that cutting the cord so to speak of communication, that's why he's terrified to date me in the first place, so if I cut off communication (especially since the entire time we dated it was wonderful) cutting the communication just says to him "hey i'm just like every other girl who said she'd always be your friend, and then blocked you" he's had that happen multiple times, and I refuse to be like that. #6 yep, been there done that. #7 what benefits? lol. I don't have a car, so having him around meant I actually could go out, I can't now (bus is not an option for me) he never made me feel tied down, and we still love spending time together. in summary, he only broke up with me out of fear of hurting my feelings in the future, but instead hurt them now.

Ended and separated by great distance after 2 years. Impossible to get over that feeling and 2 years after that break, he's back to be in contact. Is it possible the contact be a way for both to get over each other?

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My ex is in most of my classes and he's also in my form. He's a bit of a player and I need to forget him but I see him everyday what should I do ?

Awh :(

Breaking up is very difficult. You invest so much emotion, effort and time that .. You can't help but yearn for the person when you don't have them. you think about all the good times n good qualities and poor qualities and bad times:...over and over and over probably past the duration of your relationship was.

I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year 2 months ago and I still think of him everyday. He was my first love and it had been just hell getting over him. I feel mad at myself when I miss him cause after all I was the one who ended the relationship. I deleted all our texts and photos so I can't go back and see em. That helped. I also hid away his gifts in another room ...I don't have the heart to throw them away. I don't think I want to go back to him but all I keep thinking is if I would find anyone better than him? It's quite anxiety provoking

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I moved away and the distance was getting to hard but I know there was more than that. He won't tell me or talk to me so I'm left here hurting never knowing what happened. I thought he was the one. He even planned our life together. But he's the one that broke it off. I wish I could confront him but I can't so much when I'm 4 hours away. Maybe I'll get to in a year but I'm afraid it'll be too late.

Atleast you had the power to make him an ex :(