7 Tips for when You Hate Your Daughter's Boyfriend ...


When you hate your daughter’s boyfriend, it can seem like there will never be peace in your house. But the time has come to weigh out your options and be more proactive when it comes to your child’s love life. Whether your child is in high school or looking to get married, it’s no picnic when you hate your daughter’s boyfriend. It is definitely hard to see the love of your life, the person you love forever unconditionally, waste their time with someone who you think is a complete loser. Do not feel helpless any longer because here are 7 tips to consider following for when you hate your daughter’s boyfriend!

1. Introduce Her to Someone New

This might seem annoying at first but as a concerned parent, you have every right to introduce new prospects into your child's life when you hate your daughter's boyfriend. Regardless of whether she is interested in the guys you introduce her to or not, I would still continue to suggest new guys. I say to continue with setting her up whether it works out or not, because maybe eventually she will see the differences between the gentlemen you set her up with, and the low-life she is currently dating. And even if she doesn’t, introducing her to new people can be a positive and assertive thing to do- especially since you’re not directly intervening in her relationship, and you are still showing your daughter how concerned you really are.

Express Concern to Your Daughter


Logan Horton
Ending it? No. All that does is break her heart and make her hate you. Let her learn her own lessons. Mothers don't always know what's best.
My parents hated my boyfriend for the longest time, this is our 6th year together, but after a while and all the headache of them trying to hook me up with others...taking my phone...forbidding all th...
Sophie Louise McSharry
I think it's very childish to slag him off to friends and family, this alone can tear your family apart. My parents hated a few boyfriends but they never ever broke it off themselves, I learnt the har...
Thank you for addressing this. My mom recently told me that when I was dating my soon to be ex husband he said some really nasty things to her, but she didn't ever tell me because she didnt want to ge...
My parents tried to "forbid" me from seeing my boyfriend. Blocked his number nd all that. So he bought me a new phone. Doesnt work.
I think at that age if my parents had tried to forbid me from seeing someone it would have backfired pretty badly
Shannon McCarthy
I think it's extremely immature to tell all of your family and friends how much you hate him. Try to get to know him first, do things with your daughter and him together. If you still don't like him...
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