You shouldn't be ashamed of saying you're a virgin. In fact, you should be proud of it! Here are a few tips for women who wish they weren't virgins:
1. You Aren't Missing out on Anything
Women don't hit their sexual prime until they're in their 30s. Young women usually don't orgasm when they date young men, which is why there's nothing wrong with waiting a few years to have sex for the first time.
2. Don’t Rush into Anything
You don't want to have your first kiss and lose your virginity on the same day. There's nothing wrong with waiting a little while, so you can make sure you're with the right person.
3. Masturbate More
If you masturbate on a daily or weekly basis, then you'll probably end up orgasming more than your friends in relationships. Your orgasms will probably be stronger too, because no one knows your body better than you do.
4. Don’t Believe the Hype
Don't get me wrong. Sex is great. But it's not any better than pizza.
5. Get a Vibrator
You don't have to use your hands to pleasure yourself. You can order a vibrator from an adult shop and feel the best sensation of your life.
6. It Happens at Different Times for Everyone
Don't compare yourself to other people. Everyone develops at a different pace.
7. Don’t Be Friends with People Who Judge You
You shouldn't waste your time with people who judge you based off of your sex life. It's none of their business, anyway.
8. Make Sure Your First Time is Special
Don't rush into anything. Wait until you find the right guy, so that your first time actually means something. You don't want to end up regretting it.
9. There’s More to Life than Sex
Instead of focusing on boys, you should be focused on your grades and your career. They should be your priorities.
10. The Right Man Won’t Pressure You
If your boyfriend is pressuring you to sleep with him, you should find a new boyfriend. You deserve someone who respects your body and your decision to take things slow.
11. Make Sure You Use Condoms
Don't forget to protect yourself once you're ready to lose your virginity. You can get pregnant the first time you ever have sex, you know.
12. More People Are Virgins than You Think
People like to brag about how much sex they've been having, but virgins usually keep quiet. That's why you don't realize how many people around you are in the same boat as you are.
13. You’ll Probably Fall for the First Person You Sleep with
Sex might not mean anything to the boy you're sleeping with, but it'll probably mean something to you if it's your first time. That's why you shouldn't sleep with any old guy. You'll probably get attached to him.
14. Your First Time Won’t Be Amazing
In the future, once you learn more about your body and your partner's body, you'll enjoy sex. But your first time ever isn't going to be the greatest.
15. You Shouldn’t Bleed the First Time
If you two engage in foreplay for long enough, so that you get wet enough, then sex shouldn't be painful for you. It should actually be pleasant.
16. Keep Your Standards High
Don't settle for some crummy guy, just because you want to get sex over with. Wait for the right person.
17. Stay Positive
You're going to find someone eventually. Don't give up hope.
There are women in their 20s and 30s who are virgins, so don't feel like you're all alone. Do you think you're ready to lose your virginity?