You know how to not be needy because it shows insecurity but can it go too far? Let me tell you, there is a fine line between being the annoying needy girl and the sweet dependent girl. The whole point of a sweet and thoughtful gesture is to have no expectations in return. That’s what differentiates you from the crazy. I am here to share with you my tips on how to be sweet without being clingy.
1. Sweet Texts
Have you ever received a text out of the blue from a guy you’re seeing that just says, “I miss you”? How well did you feel when you read that? Now think about it in reverse. Guys love receiving that type of text as well. Texting is one of the best ways to be sweet without being needy. The key factor in this though is that it is something done sporadically. There is such a genuineness when there is an element of surprise to receiving nice texts. When a guy is blowing up your phone telling you how much he “misses you baby“ all the time, you know he is literally just bullshitting you. Well, if you’re blowing up a guy’s phone telling him how much you like him and can’t wait to see him and thinking about him constantly, he finds you very annoying and needy. Try sending a guy a sweet text such as, “wanted you to know I’m thinking about you”, “hope you’re having a good day”, or even “I wish I was in bed with you (kiss emoji)”. Just make sure to keep these types of texts spread out for more of a heartfelt feeling.