21 Tips on How to Choose between Two Guys ...


If you don’t know how to choose between two guys, I’m going to enlighten you. I know this is a really difficult position to be in because it's confusing to everyone involved. Unfortunately you are going to have to hurt someone that you care about by letting him go and that really sucks. If you need a bit of help on how to choose between two guys, here’s a couple of good ways to clarify that whirlwind of emotions going through your mind.

1. Determine the Qualities of Each Guy

One of the best tips on how to choose between two guys is to determine what you want in a partner. Make a list and write down qualities that you think makes a good partner. Although we all have a unique criteria when choosing a guy, there are certain qualities that a good guy should have. Qualities like loyalty, kindness, compassion and helpfulness are must-haves. Think about which guy actually has the qualities that you are looking for in a long-term partner.

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@M_A_guy I have the exact situation. I mean, in the end, the only way to choose is who you want more. Is the British guy worth long distance? If not, subtly start texting less and less. I chose the g...
Melissa Yanel
@Ecem that's so true!
Melissa Yanel
@Rochelle they're too good ain't them!!? But also such drinkers man... Drives me nuts! I want a caring man who isn't sexist! They go all "I'm a gentleman" but they're actually a bit sexist... I ended fed up with the football/beer/friends thing...
Melissa Yanel
@Henna I have them apparently... But it sucks. One is a professional drinker, unable to save up for his own daily meal at work, who has a son that tries to see when there's not an important football m...
What happens when you have been with a guy for almost two years.. And you really love him, yet you moved for college and you feel like something is different. You love your boyfriend, but you haven't ...
Ladies my advice is dont hurt anyone.. Your first date is the best you just both need to talk and spend more time..
Gail Allen
Hardest thing ever. I'm with a guy of 7 years, love is there but stale... Met someone new who makes me feel alive and is like a soulmate but wants to take it slow. Can't have both but no idea what to do, potentially life changing and so sad :(
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