23 Coping Tips 📖 for Girls Dealing with an Insecure 😟 Boyfriend 💏 ...


Insecurity can cause a lot of issues in a relationship and seems to have already led you here to seek out ways for how to deal with an insecure boyfriend. An insecure guy can tend to be overly jealous, make ridiculous accusations, constantly bombard you with calls and texts, or become moody at a moment's notice. If you feel like your guy is worth the extra effort to help him get past his insecurities in the relationship, then here are tips on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend to help you out!

1. Examine Your Behavior

The first thing you should do on how to deal with an insecure boyfriend is look at yourself. See if there are any ways that you may be contributing to his insecurities. Do you flirt with others? Do you do things to make him jealous? Do you ignore him? Make sure you're not giving him reasons to distrust you which may be adding to his insecurities. If you are 100% sure that you are not contributing to how he's acting at all, then stand your ground. Make sure you're not giving up your friends or your life to make your guy feel more secure when you've given him no reason to distrust you.

Give Him Subtle Reassurance


Samantha Tan
My boyfriend is the exact opposite. I wish he's as clingy as others have described.
My boyfriend is all of those things and he has anger issues.. He never takes it out on me we have lots of dents in the doors of our house but I can't talk to another guy because he gets angry and if h...
Heather Jensen
Mm, I would say that you need to tell him to back off. I am not a fan of ultimatums, but it might be time for that.
Heather Jensen
Oh no, that is awful! Have you tried to talk to him about it? If so and it is still not working, it might be time for you to move on and find someone that is worth your time and someone that will treat you amazing!
My boyfriend is very insecure. His ex was ironically a stripper who cheated on him. I started dating him a year later, he and I were perfect until things got more serious. Now he's very clingy, I have...
My last one did not work out. I tried to communicate with him and sometimes it worked. I also did know about his past because he brought it up every time he said he didn't believe i truly loved him, a...
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