6. Fill Them in

Be sure if you see your ex out in public that you fill them in on how you’re doing if it has been a while since you broke up. If they ask how you are, then don’t overdo it, or go to extremes, but simply fill them in on your job and how things are going with your family, friends, etc.

Tell them about a new hobby, or new interest, but also keep it brief. You don’t want to elaborate on your life without them, which might make you sound like you’re trying to prove a point, but you should also act natural by filling them in on what is going on in your life, letting them know you’ve moved on and have a healthy, adult attitude towards the breakup.

Don’t Flaunt


Ignore, ignore and ignore!!! Men hates when they are ignored!!!
I hid in a fridge at the milkbar yesterday morning. Just finished at the gym, bright red, sweaty and gross.... Stop of to get breakfast and in walks the devil. I hid in the fridge and the shop owner laughed his head off when I told him why!
How about when you have to see them everyday at work? I've made arrangements that we do not work together. We don't speak and it's not mandatory that we have to. I'm still hurting. It's hard to let go...
@Benita totally agree! Especially when ur with ur new partner! U don't hv to act like ur 10x happier than b4! Just act normally like u always do.
Maria Salomé Cifuentes
Wish i've read this two days ago!!
U girls out there! Apart from acting like miss.dont care at all... U actually don't have to care! Trust me, real success won't come when u act happily in front of him and u see him look jealous, but i...
Mallika Bhatia
I totally do that ! And it's so true ! It actually makes them want you back in their life
Ggandtt Jones
I think it tasteless to come to your ex's family functions. You look sad and desperate when the ex and there new love come. When the relationship ends the family ties should end as well...js
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