Some boys aren't worth the time and the energy it takes to deal with them. That's why you have to be picky when it comes to dating. But here are a few types of boys that are actually worth your time:
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1. Boys That Listen
If he asks you a question, he should actually listen to your answer. He shouldn't drown you out while he looks through his cell phone.
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When a guy truly values what you have to say, it's evident in his body language and his responses. He will maintain eye contact, nod along to show he's engaged, and offer thoughtful input that proves he's comprehending your words. This kind of active listening is a rare quality that signifies respect and genuine interest in your thoughts and feelings. It's a green flag in any relationship, indicating that he's not just physically present but also emotionally attentive.
2. Boys with Goals
If he has plans for his future, then he has a good head on his shoulder. It's better to deal with someone like him than someone who just goes with the flow and doesn't have any real ambitions.
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3. Boys Who View You as an Equal
It's 2016, which means there's no more room for ignorance. You should only spend time with boys who view women as their equals.
4. Boys Who Hold Open Doors
It's not hard to be polite. If he can't even hold open a door for you, then he's not worth your time.
5. Boys Who Don’t Send Dick Pics
Asking for your nudes isn't the only way for a man to admit his attraction. He can show you he's interested without bringing nudity into the equation.
6. Boys Who Are Close with Their Mothers
If he's close with his mother, then he probably knows how to treat a woman right. That's good news for you!
7. Boys Who Aren’t Only Interested in Sex
Boys who want more than casual sex are keepers. They won't use you and lose you.
8. Boys Who Put Effort into Their Appearance
You shouldn't be the only one picking out pretty outfits to wear. He should be dressing his best on dates, as well.
9. Boys Who Text Back Quickly
Don't you hate waiting hours for a reply? That's why you should only associate with boys who text you back promptly.
10. Boys Who Can Cook
Even if you like to cook, you'll have your lazy days. That's why you'll love dating a man who can cook as well as you can.
11. Boys with Good Memories
If he has a good memory, then he'll never forget a birthday or an anniversary. Then he'll never be in the doghouse.
12. Boys That Aren’t Afraid to Show Emotion
Some men think that crying shows weakness. Of course, it's better to date a guy who's comfortable being honest with you and expressing his every emotion.
13. Boys Who Make You Orgasm
Men aren't the only ones who deserve to have fun in the bedroom. You should be orgasming as often as he does.
14. Boys Who Make You Laugh
Life is too short to take too seriously. That's why you need a man who's able to make you laugh, even on your worst days.
15. Boys Who Share Your Interests
You don't have to like all of the same things, but it's always nice when your crush has something in common with you.
16. Boys Who Don’t Stare at Their Phones
When you two are out together, you should be the only thing on his mind. He shouldn't be alternating between staring at you and his phone.
17. Boys Who Want You to Be Happy
His main goal should be to make you happy. If he can cause you to cry without caring, then you don't need him.
If your crush has any or all of these traits, then he's a catch. Are you currently crushing on a boy who actually deserves your time?
Comments
Courtney: I agree with this post. ;) All of these traits are so important. Especially traits loke like listening, and knowing how to treat you.
Sharon: He had all these traits and I lost him :( I hope I can find someone like him again . Just got move forward (:
Klunn11: My boyfriends all of these, perfect 😻
Napujthoj: *sigh*😩 i have a crush on someone who has all these qualities. Just that he doesn't seem to feel the same way I do. 😞
Kristina: You said how men and women should be equals but a boy has to open the door for a woman? No.
Erin: I like this Person and he wants to FaceTime I’m a nervous wreck 🤦🏾♀️
Courtney: Traits like*. Not "loke"; sorry.
Hana: I love guys who adore their moms it's adorable I am close to my mom she's my best friend when a guy loves his mom it melts my heart so cute!
Ilda: Now i think im the dumb one
Splashhhh: The on no.9 is soo cute 😍
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