4. Avoiding Problems

Do you constantly avoid the problems that rise up in your relationship? Do you just put them off and don't bring them up again until you are fighting about them? That's a pattern and one that isn't healthy and that you shouldn't keep up. You should attempt to work out all of your problems as they come up. This is where the discussion piece should come in!

You Aren't Yourself


Heather Jensen
Hi Age! I know that you love him, but truth be told, that is the love speaking. I think that you need to really think about your relationship and figure out if you do love him or if you are just stuck.
Heather Jensen
They do! I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I'm glad you are getting out.
Melissa London
13 years in one but I've reached my breaking point and have had enough. My kids and i deserve better. I just hope I can be strong enough to see it through.
Every Single one is absolutely correct! Thank god I learned and moved on.
Heather Jensen
Oh no! :( Have you thought of getting out?
Heather Jensen
Aww! I'm so glad that you did! It'll feel refreshing soon.
Heather Jensen
Good! I'm glad you got out!
Heather Jensen
That is true, but a lot of times, love is blind when you are in this type of relationship.
Heather Jensen
Seriously! It is awful to be in a relationship like that.
Age Khalid
What should I say I feel I'm in one right now but it's not just a relationship it's a marriage, but I don't want to leave him, because I love him way too much. We have been married for a year but we ...
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