The idea is that you get into a relationship because you like or love the person you're with and you want to be in one. That's not true for everybody, though. Sometimes, people end up in relationships just because they don't want to be alone. Sometimes, they force themselves into one even though it's not right. Sometimes, things seem really great at first, but then they start to realize that they're not really happy at all. The point is, there are lots of reasons why someone might discover that they don't dig their new relationship. These are some of the biggest warning signs.
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1. Not Only do You Never Have Anything to Talk about
Not one single thing – in fact, some days you'd be happy if you never had to talk to you partner again.
2. But You Don't Really Want to Talk to Your Partner Either
There will probably come a point where everything your boyfriend/girlfriend says irritates, angers, or annoys you.
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3. You Make Excuses Not to Hang out Together
You'll do anything to avoid spending time together, even if it means going shopping for shoes with your mom or going to the gym when you absolutely hate the gym.
4. You Prefer Going out with Your Friends
You want to spend your free time with people who interest you, and more often than not, that ends up being your friends, not your boo.
5. You Never Really Care What Your Partner is Doing
He/she could be cheating on you or running away to Alaska for all you care.
6. You Spend More Time Arguing than Actually Talking
Because, again, you just don't have anything to talk about, and at least arguments break up the monotony.
7. You're Not Really into Having Sex at All
To be honest, there's a book you'd rather be reading.
8. And You Look for Ways to Get out of Being Intimate
You'll make any excuse, even if it involves acting like your period just lasted for a full month.
9. You've Stopped Learning Things about Your Partner
You just don't care to learn anything new because nothing is even impressing you anymore.
10. You Don't Volunteer Any New Information, Either
Likewise, it just doesn't seem worth the time to reveal anything new about yourself.
11. When You Make Plans, You Rarely Include Your Boyfriend/girlfriend
You don't care what your partner's doing, after all, and you'd rather have fun and be free for a little while.
12. There's No Joy or Contentment when You're Together
Anytime you're in the same space, everything just feels heavy, oppressive, and negative.
13. You Just Don't Feel Comfortable with Your Partner or in the Relationship
You're not comfortable in your own skin, and you may even feel bad about yourself.
14. You Feel Angry or Sad Constantly
You can't even remember what it was like to feel happy with the person you're dating.
15. You Spend a Lot of Time Complaining about Your Relationship
Not only that, but you've noticed that there are more things to complain about than there are things to be happy about.
16. Everything Your Partner Does Irritates You
The way he breathes, the way she chews, his habit of leaving his dirty clothes all over the floor, her tendency to leave soda cans everywhere...
17. You're Starting to Act like You're Single
You're not just harmlessly looking anymore. Now it's a struggle to resist flirting with or chatting up other people.
'Fess up, girls. Did you ever find yourself in a relationship that you just hated?
Comments
Scarlett: girls. of course if hes hanging out with her all the time and being very flirtatious then thats a real problem and you have to discuss this camly with him. maybe something like you dont ming when hes out with friends as long as you get to know when and
Aakriti: Any more tips?
Scarlett: he picked you. so you have to think of yourself as his number one pick when you need a self confidence boost. a lot of women tend to get jealous when their confidence is low. and also boyfriends have a right to see their friends even if they happen to be
Aakriti: But he says I can't just like walk and pretend as if she's not there. She blocked me from fb as well and I told my bf why'd she do that. He says as far as I know her she doesn't wanna intrude in your life
Astrid: This is absolutely true! Thank God ive found someone new
Sammi: @Aakriti Raina hey, so if I were you I'd started talking to other boys and a be a bit flirty make sure your bf sees and if he reacts like you did your good but if not I think it's time to move on😓
Sammi: Ok great thanks!!! Any other help?
Regina: Tell him you meant it if you meant it, and if so... Call him up & say you think you two should go out & would make beautiful babies together ( basically be forward & flirt with him if you like him). All you have to lose is rejection if he doesn't.
Regina: In which case, I would simply overconfidently look at him with BIG eyes & say something flirty again. It will at least plant the seed in his brain that you can be fun. And guys like fun!
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