You can flirt with your crush, even if you're shy. You just have to take baby steps that'll help you work your way up to flirting with him like a pro. Here are a few things you can do to get your crush's attention at first:
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1. Add Him on Social Media
It doesn't matter how shy you are. You can do this. All you have to do is press that "follow" or "friend" button. It's not that difficult.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
2. Message Him
Now that you're friends with him on social media, you should talk to him over social media. Ask him about the homework or when the next big football game is if you'd like. Be as casual as you're comfortable with.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
3. Make Eye Contact
The next time you see him in person, look him in the eyes. It's scary, but you can do it. He's just a regular person, like you are.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
4. Smile at Him
Once you're comfortable making eye contact with him, you should smile at him. If he smiles back, then it'll make your day.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
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5. Ask Him to Hang out in a Group
If he's a friend of a friend, then this should be easy. Ask him to hang out in a big group, so that it doesn't seem like you're interested in him and only him.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
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6. Look Good in Front of Him
Dress your best whenever you know you're going to see him. Looks aren't everything, but it can't hurt to look lovely.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
7. Wear Flirty Perfume
Most men are attracted to the scent of vanilla and lavender. Try finding a perfume with those notes in it.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
8. Sit Facing Him
If he knows anything about body language, then he'll realize you're fascinated by him if you're always pointed toward him. Even if he's clueless when it comes to stuff like that, he might subconsciously pick up on the move.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
9. Play with Your Hair
You've seen women do this in movies. Don't go crazy. Just play with a strand or two as you're talking to him or looking at him.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
10. Ask Him for Help
Boys love to feel like heroes. The next time you need help lifting something or opening something, ask him if he can give you a hand.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
11. Compliment Something Small
You don't have to compliment him on his hot body. Just make a casual comment about his phone or sneakers.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
12. Laugh at His Jokes
Men like women who smile. Try to act like you're in a good mood whenever he's nearby, so you seem like fun to be around.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
13. Cheer Him on at a Game
If you go to his games, he'll see that you're interested in the things that he's interested in. That's always a good thing.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
14. Apply Lipstick in Front of Him
Draw attention to your lips in any way that you can. It'll make him think about kissing you.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
15. Act Confident
Men love confident women. That's why you should act like you're hot stuff, even if you don't think you are.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
16. Go to the Places He Goes
Don't become a stalker. But if you happen to hear that he's going to a certain event, you might want to go there, too.
Oh, it's usually in the little things! Maybe a shy smile or some lingering eye contact. Sometimes it's just about being around their crush more often. Subtle hints are key!
Start with small steps! Maybe say hi when you see them or talk about something you both like. It can be a bit scary at first, but those small chats can make you feel more comfortable over time.
Absolutely! It's all about finding the way that feels right for you. Maybe send them a friendly text or invite them to hang out in a group setting first. You got this!
Yes, sometimes it's the things they do, like remembering little details about the person or finding reasons to be near them. Watch for the small gestures and signals; they can say a lot!
Be gentle and patient! Start with casual, non-intimidating conversations. Smile, be friendly, and give her the space to open up without feeling pressured.
17. Look at His Lips
When you're in the middle of a conversation with him, look down at his lips. It'll let him know you've been thinking about kissing him.
Now you can flirt with your crush, even if you're super shy. What other flirting tips do you have for shy girls?
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Jay: AliaaaAa!
Adoracion: I need this so much! ;)
Cutegirl0123: Yeah never over think things. I have before and it made me feel so awkward. I just try to be casual and not think about what I’m about to do too much.
Amina: It is difficult 😏
Courtney: This article is spot-on. 😉👍
Dani: I'm seeing my crush real soon! I am going to apply all these tips when I do!
Cutegirl0123: I realize if I’m going to do any of this, then it needs to seem natural and not over thought about beforehand.
Sydney: AGREED 🙋🏻
Princess: Good article
Jesslyn: omg🙈 I've been unconsciously doing some of these~🙈
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