3. Say What You Mean and Mean What You Say

Men know that our “No” could be a “Hell No”, “Maybe”, “Yes, but I’m playing hard to get” or pretty much anything in between and that’s driving them nuts. And don’t even get me started on that famous “Nothing” and all of its meanings!

Men don’t really like to play these games - most of them will be perfectly willing to accept your original answer without further questions and you know that always causes an argument. The solution? Honesty! That’s definitely one of the ways to be a good girlfriend and, believe me, he will appreciate having a girl that CAN speak her mind. In fact, every time his friends start discussing this issue, he’ll just smile and say, “Sorry, pal, don’t know whatcha talking about”.

Give Him Some Space


Hi, I really like this guy and he is single, he is popular and I am not. I really like him and I think he likes me. I have never dated before, what can I do to get him to notice ma and hopefully ask me out/ help please!!!
homecoming gal
Hi! So here’s my situation: I was asked to homecoming by one of my good guy-friends as a date and I said yes because I kinda like him. Homecoming is this saturday. He’s picking me up and taking me...
Hey Mara, When you say "enthusiastic", what exactly do you mean? Is he flirting with her? If yes, does he do it all the time? I don't know about the trust part of it but if he's excessively flirting w...
I should trust him. But, it's difficult. Because he kept on talking with the girls he used to court! And his replies are very enthusiastic! What would I do? I felt like he only courted me because the girl doesn't like him. :(
Lol boys will be boys I guess and he's only in the 6th grade!
Lol Mary, It's so hard though, isn't it? :D
Thanks for share great post..I have got to stop nagging!
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