7 Ways to Catch His Attention and Keep It ...

7 Ways to Catch His Attention and Keep It ...
By Alicia • Nov 10, 2013

So, maybe there is a guy you like and you are looking for ways to catch his attention. You might even be dating him or married to him. Whatever the status is with this guy that has you looking for ways to catch his attention, these ideas will work. It can actually be quite fun trying them out.

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1. Smile

One of the very best ways to catch his attention is to smile at him. It sounds too simple to work, doesn’t it? But it actually does work and quite well. The trick is to give him a smile and hold it for several seconds. Don’t be surprised if he even asks you what you are smiling about. Be ready with a good answer!

2. Lean Forward

Leaning forward when a man talks to you can give him the message that you are very interested in what he is saying. And when he knows he has a captive audience, he is certainly going to take notice. Not only will he enjoy your attentiveness but he is very likely to go on talking for quite a while, which is something that most women really enjoy. We all love a guy who wants to open his heart and share his thoughts with us. Letting him know you are paying close attention by leaning forward will help him to do that.

3. Wear Red

This one surprised me a bit but men actually notice women that are wearing red more than women who are not. Maybe this is because men struggle with a degree of color blindness and this bright, bold color is an easy one for their eye to enjoy. Whatever the reason, if you are trying to catch his attention, comb your closet for something red to wear. If you don’t have anything in this color then it just may be time to go shopping. A solid top in this hue is just the ticket here.

4. Wear Your Hair down

If your hair is long, wear it down. Most men, but certainly not all, like long hair. You can get bonus points if you play with a strand of it a bit. This is a great way to catch a man’s attention. You are drawing his attention in and he may just be captivated by you when you do this.

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5. Laugh at His Jokes

Most men cannot resist a woman who he can entertain. There is a bit of a little boy in most men. This little boy on the inside loves the challenge of seeing if he can make someone laugh and when you do, he is a happy man. He may keep right on telling jokes to see if he can make you keep right on laughing. Your appreciation of his humor will flatter him.

6. Wink

A flirtatious little wink will certainly catch a man’s attention. It gives him the message that you noticed him and you like what you see. This is a great way to put the ball in a man’s court, too. One little wink isn’t so hard to manage. This is an easy way you can turn it back to him and wait and see what he does next.

7. Don’t Speak First

This is a bit of a game changer. Give a guy your smile and just wait. If you speak first, you lose. If you wait and just continue giving him a pretty smile when he looks your way, you are guaranteed to be noticed. The goal is to get him interested enough that he talks first and strikes up a conversation with you.

Now it’s your turn, ladies. What methods do you use to catch his attention? What has gave you guaranteed success in this area?

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  • Moniqueiman

    2013-11-10T20:10:30.000Z

    Also never underestimate the power of cleavage. The fastest way to get a guys attention and he will waste 0 time approaching u. How this one escaped the list is beyond me ;) lol
  • Jasmine

    2013-11-10T19:51:40.000Z

    Hmmm...
  • Jasmine

    2013-11-10T19:47:28.000Z

    OMG jasmine our profiles are the same?
  • Moniqueiman

    2013-11-10T20:06:29.000Z

    Don't speak first works like a charm. I do it all the time. Make him come to you ;)
  • Erin

    2013-11-12T04:13:08.000Z

    I smile all the time at my crush, not sure if it's working though. We make eye contact quite a bit though... :/
  • Gabriela

    2013-11-22T18:39:11.000Z

    I'm trying this tonight going on a daaate <3
  • Ya

    2013-11-10T21:24:55.000Z

    I think winking is creepy, like sometimes I wonder is their eye just stuttering, do they have dust in their eye or are they literally winking at me
  • splashhhh

    2013-11-11T02:08:45.000Z

    Im not that desperate if someone likes me better like me without any effort .
  • Nicki

    2013-11-10T18:58:37.000Z

    Very good!
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