7 Ways to Catch the Attention of Your Crush ...

While you can't make someone like you, you can certainly make sure they know you exist. Follow these tips by guest contributor Sadie and you'll be grabbing the attention of that cutie you've been eyeing in no time.

Everyone has that special somebody. Here are some ways to draw attention to yourself and hopefully make your crush like you. If everything doesn't work out, just remember there are many other fish in the sea. Always be true to yourself and never change for a guy; it isn't worth it.

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Look Your Best

Make sure that you are dressed nicely; don't wear sweats and a tee shirt. Don't be fake either. Be genuine and don't try to be somebody that you're not, just don't be sloppy.

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Be Confident

It shows ladies, and it's is one of the most attractive things about a person. Your crush will notice your confidence, and he'll like it.

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Show Your Pearly Whites

One of the first things that a guy notices about you is your smile. If you have a great smile he is bound to like you. So when you catch him looking at you, smile!

Be Direct

Even you are talking to him, don't stare off into space. Make eye contact. Don't be pushy though; that is a surefire way to turn him off.

Hang out with Him

If you have any of the same classes make sure that you are paired up with him, or make excuses to hang out with him. You could go out for ice cream or see a movie that you both want to see.

Tell Your Friend

Have a close friend subtly tell your crush that you like him. This is daring, but if your crush likes you too, it will give him the guts to ask you out.

Don't Stalk

Not his Facebook page, not in person, not ever. This will make him think you are a creepy stalker girl. Say hello to him every once in a while when you see him in the hallway, but do not stalk him.

These are some tips to give you the courage to catch his eye, but not scare him away.What methods do you use to catch your crush's attention?

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It's hard for me to get noticed by my crush because I moved school :( and I haven't seen him in a long time but I still have a slight feelings for him :D One day (long time ago) out of boredom I wrote him a letter that I promised myself I would give it to him at the last day of school (I even set a reminder date on my phone! XD haha) It's so cheesy and cringegyybecause I wrote in the letter things I admire about him and I also confessed when I started liking him. To be honest I intended the letter to be something he would remember and I imagined it perfectly that he is smiling while reading it and after he read it at least he would think I'm different from all the other girls in school :). It's just soo sad because I don't know where the letter is anymore! :'( and maybe I'm just embarrassing myself if I ever do give it him plus there's no point like I said I already moved school ages ago so it's time for me to move on! :( he such a lovely guy (not those jerk-types!) One thing I don't like is his group of friends especially girls!!! They're like the popular peeps in my year, so wanna-bes, flirty and fake! at least I'm glad I don't see them anymore! :(

You know I'm an observer, and I know sometimes we try to look our best to cover we feel like crap. And plenty of people dress lazy or sloppy but there comfy. I can usually tell when someone wants me to notice something or try to divert me from looking at something else. I just wish I could go up to someone say hey you look great and not make them feel like I'm hitting on them. I love a woman to take a chance and approach me are flirt. For me it's not all about looks, if we can have a conversation and I learn about you are you share something. Your on a roll. I notice a woman on the bus one evening I wasn't looking my best probably more scary then anything. But I notice she spent time getting ready to look good for work now she was tired and headed home from the job. Before I got off at my stop I tapped the rail by her and said hi, I know your probably tired and had a long day. But I want you to know you still look great and I got off the bus. The next day the same bus driver said man you made her day and mine yesterday So try being yourself ladies and use your personality to make a move

Stalking your crush Is the worst thing to do

HELP. I've been talking to this guy named Tim.. He's a couple years older than me and I really like him.. He goes to my youth group, he plays guitar, he sings, he has an extremely nice body and I feel like he's totally out of my league I'm usually the one to txt him first but every time he sees me in school there's not a time where he won't shout my name and say hi. Which I always get the hopeless butterflies.. At lunch he'll usually stop and sit on the outside bench and sit where me and my friend do and I've noted that his body is completely turned towards me. But a while back when I asked him if he liked me (over txt) he said he didn't like anyone. And I've complimented him quite a bit but he never compliments me.. I really like this guy.. We haven't talked for a couple days and I haven't txted him but I really need so guidance please help.

So I like my former crush. Last time he found out I liked him, and that didn't end up well. None of my friends like him (they think he's really annoying) so I have decided to keep it a secret now. I only have one class with him, p.e. He like hugs me and talks to me all the time, well probably because he is right next to me in roll... I know for a fact that he thinks I'm hot, but I want him to really melt. Ya know? Please help. Oh and btws this post is really helpful too

Number one's hard for me. If I can't get a guy to like me in my usual comfy clothes (which usually involves sweatpants),then how on earth would he deserve my attention? I don't dress sloppily but have reasons for the way I dress.

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