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9 Ways to Deal with His Female Friends if You Don't like Them ...

By Heather

Learning how to deal with his female friends isn't always the easiest thing in the world. Female friends can be catty and can take a girlfriend completely the wrong way – especially if they really like your man. If you are having problems dealing with his female friends, don't worry; I've got all of the tips that will help you! Remember, they are his friends, so you've got to be nice, but you also have to stand up for yourself! Keep reading to discover the best ways to deal with his female friends!

1 Don't Assume the Worst

Whenever you are trying to learn how to deal with his female friends, you can't assume the worst right away. Not all female friends have a huge crush on your man, they are simply protective. So don't go into his group of friends automatically thinking that you know they like him. Don't assume girls, just let it all unfold!

2 Don't Feel Insecure

There is absolutely no reason for you to feel insecure around his female friends. You are his girlfriend and it must be pretty serious if he is introducing you to his friends – especially the female ones! Take it as a good sign, girls, and don't instantly become insecure if his friends are hot – so are you!

3 Trust Your Man

If your man has a lot of female friends, you've got make sure that you trust your man. The worst thing in the world that could happen is you not trusting your boyfriend and causing an issue – that isn't an issue. Remember, they are probably his friends for a reason and if he is introducing you, you don't need to worry about him cheating with one of them!

4 Don't Cause Drama

Remember when I said you shouldn't make an issue out of nothing? That means don't cause any drama! Unnecessary drama can actually make your man turn toward his female friends instead of you, so he can maybe make sense of how to deal with you.

5 No Ultimatums

When you are learning how to deal with his female friends, you've got to make sure that you aren't making it a 'them or me' situation. Guys hate ultimatums so if you are giving him one, you'll probably end up losing him. If you hate his friends, you might want to reflect on yourself and figure out why. Did they do something to you? Do you just hate them because they are hot? Because you feel insecure?

6 Talk about Your Feelings

I can't stress this one enough, girls! If you are having negative feelings toward his friends, you've got to talk about them with him. You've got to get them all out and really express them. That way he might be able to understand where you are coming from with your feelings!

7 Relax

Whether you are meeting with his female friends for the first time or for the tenth time, you've got to make sure that you relax a little bit. Don't worry yourselves, girls! It's just meeting his friends and if your boyfriend loves you, his friends will love you too!

8 Is the Stress Worth It?

Remember when I said don't create any drama or make any unnecessary stress in your relationship? Is the stress really worth it? That's the thing you have to remember if you are thinking about stressing out or starting any drama. Stress like that in your relationship can cause strain and you don't need that!

9 Know Your Man

Finally, when you are learning how to deal with his female friends, just remember that you know your man, you know everything about him, including how he feels about you. He loves you and that means he won't do anything to change your relationship.

So the next time you are meeting his female friends, just take these tips to heart! Learning how to deal with his female friends is part of the relationship, girls! So, what other tips do you have? Any?

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