13 Ways to Deal with Your Crush Having a Girlfriend ...


We've gotten a ton of feedback and comments on what to do if your crush has a girlfriend. Well girls, you asked for it and we're here to deliver! Below, I've got the top 13 ways to deal with your crush having a girlfriend and what you can do about it! After all, you never want to break up a relationship, but what can you do when your crush has a girlfriend? Let's take a look below!

1. Respect That He is with Someone

Having a crush on someone can bring on a ton of strong feelings, but girls, how would you like it if someone had a crush on your boyfriend and was acting on it? You've got to respect that he's with someone in order to move forward. If it doesn't work out? He's free game, but until then, you will have to just respect that they are together. I know that's really hard when your crush has a girlfriend and you still have strong feelings, but there are ways to work through it!

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Heather Jensen
Aww! I definitely do! :) Thank you for the feedback and for reading!
Thank you so much for the advise. I really appreciate it. Thanks for always responding to everyone who leaves a comment. It means a lot to know that you care about your readers. :D
Heather Jensen
Hi Lexx! Have you tried to talk to him about it? To be honest, I'd say that you should flirt with him, show her up and really shine and shimmer in front of him. That'll make him want you instead of her!
I have a crush on this guy but he is showing interest in me and another girl. The girl has a boyfriend but every time he stops showing interest she leads him on. I don't know what to do. Please help
Heather Jensen
Hi Libby! Just because they aren't couple-y doesn't mean that they aren't a couple. I would say that you should back off a bit on him, because he is with someone. You don't want to be that girl.
Hey Heather, I'm in a similar situation. I'm a freshmen in college, and I've spoken to my crush a couple of times, and unfortunately we don't have any classes together, but I see him around campus eve...
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