4 Clever Ways ๐Ÿ“ to Get Him to Propose ๐Ÿ™and Put a Ring on It ๐Ÿ’ ...

Are you looking for ways to get him to propose? If you know for sure that heโ€™s โ€œthe oneโ€, and heโ€™s on the same page, but seems to be stuck in a comfort zone, oblivious to your desire to tie the knot, he probably needs a little nudge. Men arenโ€™t always on the same page or even the same chapter as us. So hereโ€™s how to get him to the pop the question. Good luck!

1. Go through His Mom

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Most men, much as they might deny it, are mamaโ€™s boys at heart, so heโ€™s likely to listen to his momโ€™s advice. Hopefully, his mom adores you and she would be more than happy to have you for a daughter-in-law and together, you can figure out the ways to get him to propose. Donโ€™t have her tell him what beautiful babies the two of you would make, weโ€™re trying to draw him in, not scare him off. Get your future mommy to talk to him when youโ€™re not around โ€“ maybe something about the way other guys check you out when youโ€™re out and about. Convince him that he should commit before somebody else swoops in, or before you get tired of waiting.

2. Drop Some Hints

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Whether youโ€™ve been to a friendโ€™s wedding and subtly say, โ€œI canโ€™t wait for my turnโ€ or laugh that you โ€œfeel like the odd one outโ€ when someone gets engaged, he might catch on. It might take more than one or two hints before it clicks so donโ€™t get frustrated too quickly. Borrow his phone or computer and leave the browser open on a site selling diamond rings. If that doesnโ€™t clue him in, nothing will. Added bonus, you might just get to choose your own ring. Make sure itโ€™s in his budget or he might change his mind again.

3. His Best Friend

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If you can trust his friend not to spill the beans on whose idea it was, get him to pass on the message. Whether heโ€™s telling your man that heโ€™s got the greatest best man speech in history up his sleeve, or outright saying โ€œyouโ€™ve got the perfect girl, put a ring on itโ€, guys and girls both tend to take advice from their friends.

4. Do It Yourself

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Just tell him. Tell him you want to get married and wait for him to do the rest. If you need to, give him a vague deadline, like โ€œI want to get married before Iโ€™m 30โ€ or โ€œbefore my sisterโ€. If all else fails just get down on one knee, or better yet on his lap, much sexier, and ask him to marry you. Our society is pretty far along as far as gender equality goes, and if he really is the one, heโ€™ll love that you love him enough to propose, or feel bad that he didnโ€™t take the hint.

If your man shuts his eyes and hopes you stop hoping, or tells you heโ€™s โ€œjust not there yetโ€, maybe heโ€™s not the one. But trust me, your Prince Charming is out there.

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