5. Be Unavailable

When a guy asks you to hang out, tell him you have plans. Be too busy to hang with him more often than not. Let him realize other people want you around them, and you aren't at his beck and call. You just became ten times more appealing to him because you now are a chase, wanted by others, and making him feel and be unimportant.

Have the ball in your court when it comes to making plans. Go ahead and even ignore his texts. You can respond in a few days when you are ready to go out with him. Make sure to not come off prissy and throw it in his face that so and so wants to hang out. It's not attractive. Remember, you are a woman of mystery! It gives the guy a chance to realize how much he enjoys your company when you aren't there to give it to him all the time.

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Mariam Aboutaleb
Now there is a guy that i like. We used to talk a lot but then my bestfriend kept saying bad things about me to him and stuff like that. Since then men and him haven't really talked a lot/ I don't rea...
Heather Jensen
HI Lyla! Firstly, why did he turn you down? I think you need to find that out first and then figure out if he really does like you ... and if he does, why did he reject you? After that, I'd go for it!
I was turned down by a ling distance friend and he said...he cannot date me..he likes me a lot but he wants to be good friends..but from his actions I think he likes me as more than a friend! He also ...
Thanks Imma Try It ! Some My Methods Havent Completely Failed !!! Lol ;)
Heather Jensen
Exactly! :)
Heather Jensen
Exactly! I completely agree Lana!
Heather Jensen
Hi Ashleigh! Sometimes, you gotta play hard to get just to ensure that the guy stays interested. I don't think you necessarily have to give him the cold shoulder all the time, but sometimes can be good!
Heather Jensen
Hi Ariana! I think that texting a guy first is okay! That way, you can get the conversation started!
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