Need some ways to put the fighting last and the love first?
When you love each other you get comfortable with each other and in anger, you scream at the top of your lungs. You care about everything they do and start arguments about the most insignificant thing. Here are ten ways to put the fighting last and the love first.
1. Avoid the Argument
You know what makes them mad. Stay conscious of these things so both of you stay anger free. That's one of the best ways to put the fighting last and the love first.
2. Respect Not Pride
In anger, it’s easy to disrespect someone when we feel they are hurting us. Work on respecting the person you love above all others.
3. Cue Word to Respect the Line
Come up with a word that you can say if buttons are getting pushed. When used, you both stop talking.
4. Talk and Hug It out
Come back later to talk and apologize and hug.
5. If You Were in His Shoes
Try to be understanding. How would you feel if the tables were reversed?
6. The Forgiving Spirit
Forgive whatever it was they did and never speak about ever again. See number 4.
7. Remember the Good
Focus on the reason you love them.
8. Do Not Quit
If you really love this person, there’s no reason for you to give up on them.