--- title: "What Its like to Sleep with Someone Who Has a Large Penis ..." description: "You Need to Find the Right Sexual Position; You've GOT to Relax; Be Very, Very Vocal; Be Confident in Bed; If It's Too Big, Don't Force It; More ..." url: "https://love.allwomenstalk.com/what-its-like-to-sleep-with-someone-with-a-large-penis/" category: "love" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # What Its like to Sleep with Someone Who Has a Large Penis ... So, the stereotype is that everyone who likes dick wants to sleep with someone with a big penis, yes? You hear it all the time. The belief is that if you're into guys, whether you're a guy or a girl yourself, you want someone with a very large unit. The idea, of course, is that it's impossible to be sexually satisfied with a small penis, and large disco sticks provide you with far more pleasure. Before I came out, I had the … ahem, the opportunity to have sex with a dude who had a huge unit. It was 'YUUUUGE, in fact. So, even though I am now a very happily married lesbian, let me shine some light on the subject. Here's what it's like when you meet a guy who's got a big ol' eggplant. ## 1. You Need to Find the Right Sexual Position ![You Need to Find the Right Sexual Position](https://img.allw.mn/content/o7/nk/n73jqfm05733f540548e8092225489_500x265.gif) This is terribly important. Eventually, once your body is really ready (and used to all that length and/or girth), you may well be able to tackle any position imaginable, but the first time, keep it slow and steady. Err on the side of caution, even if it means missionary. ## 2. You've GOT to Relax ![You've GOT to Relax](https://img.allw.mn/content/eg/eh/fyqrrh6u5733f5410d51a094725274_493x250.gif) This is also very, very important. It may take a while, not to mention plenty of foreplay, but you need to be completely relaxed. ## 3. Be Very, Very Vocal ![Be Very, Very Vocal](https://img.allw.mn/content/e9/gv/tdjf6kq25733f541a0b24313717289_500x281.gif) If something hurts or you're just not feeling it, you have to say so. Your vagina will thank you. ## 4. Be Confident in Bed ![Be Confident in Bed](https://img.allw.mn/content/or/ho/g2yfbs2g5733f54129f05769293464_500x278.gif) Not just that, but don't be afraid to take control – because, again, you may need to ease into (haha, or onto) this and it's important to relax. ## 5. If It's Too Big, Don't Force It ![If It's Too Big, Don't Force It](https://img.allw.mn/content/ql/re/zbe7zxty5733f5417847e809615573_500x241.gif) Seriously. It's not too late to back out. There are other things you can do to get each other off. ## 6. It Can Be Uncomfortable in the Beginning ![It Can Be Uncomfortable in the Beginning](https://img.allw.mn/content/b7/q0/cpbbkp6q5733f541c2a67819228479_500x274.gif) It can be REALLY uncomfortable. You may need a lot of lube, otherwise, it can feel like using a super tampon when you don't really need one. ## 7. ...it Can Also Be Painful ![...it Can Also Be Painful](https://img.allw.mn/content/wo/jq/b6z9c8bu5733f54200d8f879911516_500x271.gif) See above. You need to be extra careful if you feel pain, too. Some pain is normal, but you don't want to damage or hurt yourself. ## 8. This is Why Communication is so, so Important ![This is Why Communication is so, so Important](https://img.allw.mn/content/tq/dg/nk6doj2d5733f5422c473773591988_480x265.gif) For real. You have to talk, you have to be honest, and you have to speak up. ## 9. You Will Feel Really Full ![You Will Feel Really Full](https://img.allw.mn/content/sq/zg/re9yl7sz5733f5440698b180780527_500x279.gif) Like, you might feel like his penis is going to rip out of your belly button. It's not. ## 10. Lube It up Good ![Lube It up Good](https://img.allw.mn/content/qy/jq/wan948015733f54282e8b907463626_499x281.gif) I'm serious, I cannot emphasize this point enough. Use it even if you don't typically need it. ## 11. Understand That You Might Not Be Able to Fit It All in ![Understand That You Might Not Be Able to Fit It All in](https://img.allw.mn/content/g6/lm/kl7kfpvq5733f542e22f1037819456_500x259.gif) It happens. Do not force it. ## 12. Don't Forget to Foreplay ![Don't Forget to Foreplay](https://img.allw.mn/content/kw/ns/f4ehk5195733f5431b544243850046_500x282.gif) Stellar foreplay will make the whole thing go so much more smoothly – in more ways than one! The point is, you have to be aroused – you have to be very, very aroused. ## 13. He Needs to Go Slow ![He Needs to Go Slow](https://img.allw.mn/content/va/os/lhuant835733f542a59d3199701150_499x281.gif) Make sure you repeat this as many times as necessary. ## 14. Don't Be Scared to Switch up the Position in the Middle ![Don't Be Scared to Switch up the Position in the Middle](https://img.allw.mn/content/z9/n2/himr16m15733f54499fa6287126918_459x306.gif) Once you get more comfortable, switching up your position can be absolutely mind blowing. ## 15. Keep an Open Mind ![Keep an Open Mind](https://img.allw.mn/content/fi/ej/kaut525a5733f54362878044238853_500x275.gif) Don't be afraid of the penis. Don't be afraid to try new things. ## 16. … Which Means, Trying Things That You Might Not Be Comfortable with ![… Which Means, Trying Things That You Might Not Be Comfortable with](https://img.allw.mn/content/yw/un/p3hpv6wx5733f5442853f337395430_500x250.gif) You might even have to try a position you never thought you'd try. ## 17. Don't Penetrate until YOU Are Wet Enough ![Don't Penetrate until YOU Are Wet Enough](https://img.allw.mn/content/gb/qo/d1c2cb535733f54422331762017851_500x271.gif) This deserves its own point. You have to be lubricated. You have to be. Under no circumstances should you proceed if you aren't wet. Let's get nitty-gritty, down and dirty, totally honest. Have you ever slept with someone who has a large member? 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