Whether you're in a relationship or just starting out talking, it's sometimes confusing to try and decipher what a guy is saying in his texts. From "**Good morning sexy"** to a simple "k", let's look at what your guy might be saying so you can tell whether or not there's something there when texting you. Even though each individual is unique, there are things that every man tends to say while texting a woman so you can kind of get a feel for what he's saying by reading here:
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1. GOOD MORNING Sexy
If he sends you texts every single morning, it doesn't matter what they say, because he's totally into you. Even if he does throw sexy into it. It signals that you're the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up. If he can't wait to talk to you that he needs to text you first thing, he's definitely into you.
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It means you've snagged a prime spot in his brain, and trust me, that's prime real estate. Think about it: his groggy, barely-awake self is reaching out to you, which is basically the digital age version of serving you breakfast in bed. So, when you receive that "Good Morning Sexy" text, smile knowing you're starting his day off just right, and there's a good chance he's hoping to do the same for you. Clearly, you're his sunrise and morning espresso wrapped up in a delightful, magnetic bundle. Why else would he be so eager to catch your attention before his first cup of coffee?
2. Hey/Hi/Hello
If a guy sends you a text that says hello, but absolutely nothing else, it means that he was dying to talk to you. If he had something of actual importance to ask you, he would've added it to the first text he sent out because let's face it, men are incapable of multiple texts. Since he's keeping it short, it means that he has nothing to say to you, but wants to talk to you anyway. This is your cue to keep the conversation going if you want to show him you're interested in him too.
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3. I Can't Make It
If he always cancels your plans at the last second, it means that he's not interested. This can get confusing, because of the fact that he originally accepted your request to hang out. However, if making plans and canceling them is a frequent thing, it means that he wanted to use you as a backup plan in case all of his other friends were busy. Kick guys like this to the curb. You don't need to waste your time on that kind of negativity.
4. K
"K" has become the most dreaded letter in the alphabet. One word texts are never a good thing. Unless he really can't talk at the moment, there's no reason for him to send such short texts. If he does, then he's basically ending the conversation. "K" is equivalent to "not interested" so don't expect the conversation to continue.
5. You up?
This one is cliche, but it's something that men actually say. It's pretty much a way for them to booty call you without sounding crude. If a guy asks you over around midnight, then it's typically a request for sex. If he does it repeatedly then you're probably his booty call/side chick. Now, if he doesn't try to initiate sex into the conversation, then he's clearly lonely, can't sleep, and thinking about you which is super sweet! Let's hope it's the latter.
6. Two in a Row
If he sends you a text, and it takes you too long to respond, so he sends another one, he definitely likes you. Girls are usually the ones to do this but guys have been known to double text too if they really want to talk to a girl. He may have been worried that the last thing he said ended the conversation so he sent you something else in order to keep things flowing smoothly.
7. No Response
If a guy doesn't respond to you at all he could be busy. However, if he always stops responding out of the blue and never even gives you an excuse for it then you're not his top priority. He probably doesn't even realize that he keeps cutting off contact because your conversations aren't the most important thing on his mind. Next time a guy like this texts you, play the cold shoulder and find someone else.
Men aren't as confusing as we think they are so it's pretty simple to decipher their texts; especially the common ones. As long as you think about what they're saying logically instead of bringing emotion into the mix you'll be able to figure out exactly how he feels about you. Have you ever received messages like this from your crush?
Comments
Ashley: The guy im in a relationship right now always sends me a motivation text in the morning for my workout, I love it but at the end of the text it always says "see you later" or something. Making me feel like he doesn't want to talk. I don't want to nag him by pointing it out, but it's pretty annoying.
Lilykiara: I have done a No Response to my crush. It's not because I'm not interested in him anymore, it's because he's always replying too long or replying me like he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I guess my reason may apply to girls since we're the one usually over-thinking things. It's good that he replied to my messages, I mean I thought that it means he's interested in me since he's also the one who aaked for my number, but I guess he just wants to be friendly and not have something more. Also, I have a question. What does it means when he asks for your selfie?
Cassandra: I'm not a huge fan of this text psychology stuff because I used to have a crush on this guy who would text me every single morning, then text me as soon as he got lunch break at work, then text me as soon as he got home and when he did, we would talk non-stop. We stayed up late talking several nights, and I'd always wake up to a text from him. This went on for several months so one day I told him that I liked him and he said he didn't feel the same way and he basically stopped talking to me. So I'm not sure how accurate these "text meanings" really are.
Shannon: Hi wow handsome I like that
Bebe624: A selfie is ok. As long as it's not a sexy selfie. Save those for a real bf!
Taylor: My boyfriend does most of these. He is bipolar😩
Carrie: This is pretty clever. Although sometimes you may just be overthinking it.
Francesca: Cassandra, it sounds like he was just playing you. He just like having you around when he was "bored" because he knew you'll respond quickly to his texts.
Itohowo: Wow @cassandra that's really strange,because judging by what you said I would think he liked you.nowadays I try not too read meaning into things and just take it as is.
Laura: @Ashley hi Ashley! Sounds like maybe he doesn’t want to bother you since he knows you’re going to work out. Maybe try striking up the conversation and see what happens. :)
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