All the Things Men Wish Women Knew about Sex ...

All the Things Men Wish Women Knew about Sex ...
By Holly

It doesn't matter if you're sexually active or still a virgin, because it's never too early (or late) to learn about sex. Luckily, Your Tango has created a list of some of the things men wish more women knew about sex. Here are some of the most important points:

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1. You Should do Your Part

You Should do Your Part

He shouldn't be the only one doing the work. Sex is a two way street.

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In the dance of intimacy, participation is key. Let your actions speak as loudly as your words, showing your partner your enthusiasm and desire. Avoid laying back and assuming your man will orchestrate the entire show. Engage and interact; it's a shared adventure that flourishes with mutual effort. By contributing to the rhythm, you not only heighten your own pleasure but also affirm his. And trust this: your active involvement could be the secret ingredient that transforms a good experience into an unforgettable one. Remember, connection in intimacy is about giving as much as receiving.

2. Feel Free to Take Control

Feel Free to Take Control

He doesn't have to take the reigns. It's sexy when a woman makes herself the boss.

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Acknowledging that you have desires too isn't just empowering, it's a turn-on. Men appreciate when a woman communicates her needs and leads the way in the bedroom. It allows them to relax and enjoy the experience, knowing they're pleasing you. Embracing your confidence and guiding the action can be a huge boost to the sexual dynamic. Whether you're giving direction or physically taking charge, showing initiative speaks volumes about your passion and can lead to a more satisfying sexual encounter for both partners.

3. You Don't Need to Shave

You Don't Need to Shave

Don't freak out if there's a hair or two in your bikini area, because he doesn't care at all.

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Men often appreciate the natural look, and what matters most is how comfortable you feel in your own skin. If you're not into shaving or waxing, that's perfectly okay! Confidence is incredibly sexy, and your partner is likely more enthusiastic about the intimacy between you two than critiquing your grooming habits. Own your body with pride, because enthusiasm and confidence trump a perfectly groomed bikini line any day. Besides, the moment is about the connection – not the perfection of your landscaping. Stay true to what makes you feel good, and your partner will be on board.

4. Communicate with Him

Communicate with Him

That's the only way he'll know what you like.

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. He Likes Foreplay, Too

He Likes Foreplay, Too

You're not the only one who likes to be seduced. Don't forget to kiss him before taking his clothes off.

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6. Don't Wait for Him to Initiate

Don't Wait for Him to Initiate

He'll feel sexier when you initiate intercourse. That way, he knows you really want it.

7. He's Not Always in the Mood

He's Not Always in the Mood

It's a lie that men are always ready for sex. Sometimes, they'd rather sleep.
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I guess people don't understand that men are human and some don't want sex every waking minute. For example, some days he's just not in the mood. Don't force it on him if he doesn't want it or call him "not a man". Everyone's sex drive is different. Some guys can just be asexual

The generalizations in these comments is great !

I love to do sex

It's said that some women really do have the mindset that "men are men and men are always horny,m."

You look like a little baby@jown y u have a man😒

@elley smith Not to be rude, but I don't think your husband/boyfriend qualifies as the entire male population.

Every time I try to initiate sex he thinks that all I want from him when we barely do it once a week and we have been together almost 2 years. It's not cause it's sex he doesn't understand I want to show my love to him and his bod lmaoooo

Some men are not even interested in sex

My man wants to have sex everyday just once a day.

@Mel Francesa Some people are asexual, and some don't have proper testosterone to want sex. Men aren't "men", they're not mindless sex machines.

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