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title: "What to do if Youve Never Been Kissed ..."
description: "Get Rid of the Myth That It's Going to Be a Moment You Treasure Forever; Ask Yourself Why You Really Haven't Kissed Anyone Yet; Banish the Idea That Your First Kiss Has to Be with Someone Special; Be Prepared for Potential Weirdness; Remember That You're a Lot Less Alone than You Think; More ..."
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# What to do if Youve Never Been Kissed ...

There are plenty of women who haven't had their first kiss yet! It doesn't matter how late in life it happens to you. _Gurl_ proves that. According to their website, here are a few things you can do if you've never been kissed:

## 1. Get Rid of the Myth That It's Going to Be a Moment You Treasure Forever

![Get Rid of the Myth That It's Going to Be a Moment You Treasure Forever](https://img.allw.mn/content/nw/qa/xhywejb45669a23e34f00926028487_390x220.gif)

Your first kiss might not be as amazing as you've always pictured. Sometimes, the guy you kiss will be a dud and you won't feel any sparks. It's okay. The next guy will be better.

## 2. Ask Yourself Why You Really Haven't Kissed Anyone Yet

![Ask Yourself Why You Really Haven't Kissed Anyone Yet](https://img.allw.mn/content/pk/tu/cnq00z4n5669a23e14bdf568824876_500x192.gif)

Is it because you think you're undesirable, so you haven't put yourself out there? If that's the case, you have to start thinking highly of yourself. You're a beautiful woman, after all!

## 3. Banish the Idea That Your First Kiss Has to Be with Someone Special

![Banish the Idea That Your First Kiss Has to Be with Someone Special](https://img.allw.mn/content/hz/vn/sibtj5105669a23f5082e662315679_500x262.gif)

Don't keep putting off your first kiss until you find your perfect man. You have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. It's okay to have high standards. Just don't have unrealistic standards.

## 4. Be Prepared for Potential Weirdness

![Be Prepared for Potential Weirdness](https://img.allw.mn/content/fd/oe/deez39r45669a23ea444b727780299_500x279.gif)

Don't freak out if your first kiss ends up being awkward. Most of them are. Of course, if you're with the right guy, it won't be long until you two feel comfortable together.

## 5. Remember That You're a Lot Less Alone than You Think

![Remember That You're a Lot Less Alone than You Think](https://img.allw.mn/content/f6/nm/thn4jaxl5669a252c22e2314374918_500x281.gif)

Don't assume that everyone around you has already kissed dozens of men. They haven't. There are hundreds of girls out there like you, who are still waiting to get smooched. (I didn't have my first kiss until 19! And I still have friends who have never been kissed!)

Are you excited or worried about getting your first kiss?

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